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Discussion in 'General Off-Topic Chat' started by Ryukouki, Jun 7, 2009.
gonna be locked soon thanks for the advice
......Mybe she is PMSing?
Maybe someone started a rumor that u like her and someone told her.And if its that she probably now thinks u were just helping her and being her friend to have sex or to be with u like bf gf.. Or its that time of the month.(period)when they get moody well at least some girls
shes been like this since january.
Than its the first thing i saida rumor and now she thinks bad of u and doesnt want to be ur friend well talk to her first and say wats wrong or talk to one of her friends or sister to see wats wrong
Just tell her how you feel. Tell here that you realize she has been acting strange and are unsure how to react or if she wants to be friends with you. Its as simple as just sitting down face to face and talking to her about it.
Sounds to me it could be a few things.
One, she figured out you liked her and her being an immature bitch is her way to get rid of you as she's too cowardly to say not interested.
Two, since her sister is all huggie and kissy, perhaps she wants you and the sister is backing off.
Three, neither and the sister is being sweet to piss off the girl you like even more with fake love while both don't like you so it's a mind screw.
I'd demand to know what is going on either way as she has no right to act that way especially after you've been beyond helpful, but bought her out of lunch starvation more than once.
It's been a while then.
Maybe she's gone another way? Maybe she just moved on?
january ? then you should have just play it cool since january
How about asking her sister about whats wrong with your girlfriend?
i vote for the first reason
i experienced that kind of coldness where me and the girl just didnt talk anymore
then i found out through her friends that she was "shy" (or something like that) because she now knows i like her
try asking her sister or friends..
or maybe her her and her sister had a fight over you and the sister won..
Love is feed back. And only thing she can do is sucking from another. Why are you bothering with that... person?
yeah and then like late december she starts showing me pics of this korean dude and she puts on this cutesy voice and starts saying stuff like oh look how cute he is. I seriously wanted to take the phone and like smash it. Thats not something I wanted to see. I did not care about this guy.
Either something has happened that your not aware of or she was just using you like a toy which some girls like to do,I suggest you try a simple test to see how she reacts towards you and that test is basically ignore her for a long period of time and see if that drives anything out of her,if she doesn't care then I guess she was just using you but if she shows other emotions (like anger or sadness due to you ignoring her) then maybe she does care for you to a certain extent.....
heh ive been ignoring her for a week.
Hmmm then I guess you got your answer......
I'm close to certain that its because she heard a rumor that you like her, and is distancing herself away from you.
iite i got all my info i went on irc and got some advice too. thanks a ton guys ima lock this stuff now.
She doesn't rely on you anymore.She realized you being to nice, and never saying "no", and replying to all her needs.Girls don't like suckups.Forget about her as she is now ignoring you, because she no longer cares about you, and wants nothing from you.
At least thats what I understand.
Hmm i had a very similar problem a few months before... This situation seems a bit common.
I probably should not give advice, but.
I agree with a few guesses.
1) Rumor about your feelings for her, life is awkward for her.
2) You say yes too often. Maybe you are too clingy.
3) There are other things in her life that aggravate her.
Talk to her about it, saying things truthfully
Ask her other close friends
Try ignoring/avoiding her and see if she cares
Show her you care about her, as a friend. Like, let her rant at you and stuff.
Try not to use any sexual innuendos or anything of the sort. Joke around, but not to that point.
And if nothing works, forget her. She will either come back to you or she won't.
One question, do you like her? Like, in 'that special' way. Cause that make a ton of difference.