What do you think of Chinese girls?

[Deleted User]

A few weeks ago I met a Chinese girl online who is looking for a white boyfriend. While we were talking she started asking me what white men think about Chinese girls. I gave her my subjective opinion but I don't speak for white men in general. So that leads me to do some research and ask everyone else for their opinion.

This may be a touchy topic to some so please remember to keep your comments civil. Don't ask me for her contact details, I refuse to give them to anyone.

 

[ThoD]

Considering how she specified "white" men, that's a red flag already, but moving on... Chinese girls, much like girls from most east-Asian countries, are a gamble, like letting the grocer pick out the fruit you will pay for. They can look great, but be terrible in reality, or looks decent and be decent, while also leaving the chance of some uglies popping up here and there. Sure they can be cute and beautiful, but that doesn't mean they are good. From what I've seen on average, Chinese girls specifically are "ok", but that's it, nothing special and nothing too common.

 

[FAST6191]

Another thread on the subject?

As ThoD mentioned with an opening setup like that


We could go a bit further and there are some fantastic videos from people living in China which discuss the subject, how the concept of age plays into things greatly there, some common perceptions, how location in China might change things and more besides.

Much like most things I approach people as people, seems to yield the best results.

 

[leon315]

Chinese girls, much like girls from most east-Asian countries, are a gamble, like letting the grocer pick out the fruit you will pay for. They can look great, but be terrible in reality, or looks decent and be decent, while also leaving the chance of some uglies popping up here and there. Sure they can be cute and beautiful, but that doesn't mean they are good. From what I've seen on averagenothing special and nothing too common.

for nature of my job i meet hundreds of people everydays, i can say that these rules can apply to the population of all countries, not just asians.

@tc, plus she specific asked of ''whites'', this clearly shows she IS A RACIST, who doesn't like afros or other people from Middle west and west Asia. My theory is that China, especially in their main land has a very heavy social pressure which forces people to work hard and have them to improve constantly, TC probably serves as her ''life-changer-BACKUP-TIRE'' as the fastest way to leave their country and get green card.

 

[Cyan]

edit:
for clarification, this message is directed to Leon's comment.


don't cry racist because the OP talked only about a single choice.
he probably is "white" himself and that's why she asked about white. how would he knows what other people think if he is not from that ethnicity himself ? ("heyy, what Papua_New_Guinea think of inuit?" how could you even answer that if you are not that origin? nothing racist, just a question)
would he be any other origin or "color", she would have asked that one instead.

see it as "what the people of your country think about china?"

don't start racial debate when there's none.
thanks.

 

[ThoD]

don't cry racist because the OP talked only about a single choice.
he probably is "white" himself and that's why she asked about white. how would he knows what other people think if he is not from that ethnicity himself ? ("heyy, what Papua_New_Guinea think of inuit?" how could you even answer that if you are not that origin? nothing racist, just a question)
would he be any other origin or "color", she would have asked that one instead.

see it as "what the people of your country think about china?"

don't start racial debate when there's none.
thanks.

Read the very first sentence again.

A few weeks ago I met a Chinese girl online who is looking for a white boyfriend.

We were referring to that part. Nobody tried to start anything racial, just sorta commented on how she might be racist.

 

[sarkwalvein]

I think they are probably able to speak Chinese, but I know that is a prejudice.

We were referring to that part. Nobody tried to start anything racial, just sorta commented on how she might be racist.

She could very well have some kind of white man fetish... That is not very cool perhaps, it is kind of objectifying, and... hmmm... perhaps a red flag for the future, but I wouldn't say that is racist.

 

[Jayro]

They're just regular people, with origins from China. I don't see why this is even a thread.

 

[leon315]

well, when i talk about girls with dudes at my local gym, we all share different opinions due to our personal taste, but ALL of we were agree about one thing on chinese girl is:

SO TIED lol : )

 

[Cyan]

Read the very first sentence again.

We were referring to that part. Nobody tried to start anything racial, just sorta commented on how she might be racist.

yes, I read the "she look for white boyfriend" specifically, and if I have a preference for blond, does it make me racist of African/indian/maya/whatever country with dark hair because they (usually) are not blond?
she has the right to have physical attractiveness without hating the opposite.

this part "this clearly shows she IS A RACIST" felt different to the "might" you mentioned, and my message was directed only to Leon, not you (your message is fine).
sorry if you took my comment for you. maybe I should have quoted the part I talked about.

let's go back to the topic :

I don't know any asian girl, so I don't have any thought. I just think you can't really narrow a hole country or culture to one person. Isn't as hard to tell what you think about people of your own country?
When I went to Japan, the family I lived with had preconceived idea that I was noisy, maybe they thought European are not polite, talks or make lot of noise? I don't know. they were surprised I was shy and fit well in japanese culture. They said I could live in japan because I "looked alike". someone could be nice when traveling, doesn't make his country full of nice people. there are good and bad people everywhere.

The only thoughts I have of Chinese people are : they are less tall than European, and they are strict on appointment and business affair. that's probably some preconceived ideas I have.
I don't know Chinese culture at all to have any idea about Chinese girls nor boys.

 

[leonmagnus99]

nihao !

i prefer Jap girls !

 

[DeadlyFoez]

First off, it sounds like OP was about to get scammed.

Personally, I love asian girls. My wife is part Chinese, although the Hawaiian in her is more prominent.

Something about the beauty of asian women amazes me. They go throughout their 40's still looking like they are no older than 22, but once they hit 50 they instantly look 80. Now moving on from their appearance, asians are generally known for being logically intelligent. To me, intelligence is far more important than appearance. You can have the most beautiful woman in the world, but if she is as dumb as a walnut then I want nothing to do with her beyond sex.

I got very lucky with my wife. She is intelligent, she is caring, selfless, and the best person I have ever met. She has such a wonderful heart and soul. No one could ever replace her. But she is not without her flaws, and her flaws are primarily that she has too much of a heart that she allows people to walk all over her and she just sucks it up. She may not be a super model, but if their was a contest for peoples inner beauty, then she would certainly be a finalist.

Now putting racial stereotypes aside, no matter how true they are or are not, it isn't about race, but if what features you find attractive to you just happen to be what a certain race is known for, then more power to you. But don't ever go for a girl just for their appearance. Some of the most average looking people can be some of the best people out there.

Now, I did not go in the other direction and say that fat people and generally unappealing people might be better people because that is far from the case. If someone is willing to let themselves go to shit and they have rotten fucking teeth or are just overall disgusting, well that will tell you quite a bit about that person as well.

I'm kinda rambling here now. I will just wait for the backlash from those that disagree with my opinion.

 

[Minox]

Japan isn't China, but in Japan they have the term "gaijin hunter" for women (and to some extent men) that specifically want to get with foreigners. Some of these people might actually like you for who you are and you being their preference might be a good thing, but unfortunately there are also some that care less about you as a person and see you as a way to learn English/get away from their own country/other selfish reasons. For that reason I think one should be vary about people that appear to only be attracted to you due to your origin and/or appearance.

 

[TotalInsanity4]

I think they are probably able to speak Chinese, but I know that is a prejudice.




She could very well have some kind of white man fetish... That is not very cool perhaps, it is kind of objectifying, and... hmmm... perhaps a red flag for the future, but I wouldn't say that is racist.

I'd say that a fetishization based on race is pretty objectively racist, if not incredibly unhealthy

 

[Minox]

I'd say that a fetishization based on race is pretty objectively racist, if not incredibly unhealthy

By that definition me only being interested in women would make me sexist since I discriminate against men in my dating preference.

I do however agree that focusing only on someone's appearance/origin isn't desirable and only serves to make that person look superficial, but it does not necessarily make them racist.

 

[Fugelmir]

I go to a school dominated by Chinese students and they get kind of boring. There are attractive ones but my classes are all a sea of dark haired bespectacled heavily accented people who all (Edit: almost unilaterally, but not quite) behave very similarly (cultural trait).

White women, especially blondes, really stand out as being most desirable. This is generally true, but the relative rarity makes blonde women even more valuable. Always treat blonde women like gold.

 

[DeadlyFoez]

Spoiler

Japan isn't China, but in Japan they have the term "gaijin hunter" for women (and to some extent men) that specifically want to get with foreigners. Some of these people might actually like you for who you are and you being their preference might be a good thing, but unfortunately there are also some that care less about you as a person and see you as a way to learn English/get away from their own country/other selfish reasons. For that reason I think one should be vary about people that appear to only be attracted to you due to your origin and/or appearance.

Well said! I feel the same way, I just couldn't get it out in those words. I tend to go on bunny trails.

 

[Deleted-401606]

A few weeks ago I met a Chinese girl online who is looking for a white boyfriend. While we were talking she started asking me what white men think about Chinese girls. I gave her my subjective opinion but I don't speak for white men in general. So that leads me to do some research and ask everyone else for their opinion.

This may be a touchy topic to some so please remember to keep your comments civil. Don't ask me for her contact details, I refuse to give them to anyone.

Honestly I think that asian women are more likely to have less sexual partners than their white counterparts. I always wanted to go that route myself at some point if god is good to me.

 

[leon315]

sorry if you took my comment for you. maybe I should have quoted the part I talked about.

well, i made that part of comment, and i admit that I shouldn't judge her immediately, after all even tc doesn't know her how this chinese is.

one thing i may agreed is that they age very well even in their 40s, many of chineses women stiill look alike when they were 25yo, and many, many of them are just 1.6cm tall, small but cute : )

 

[ThoD]

well, i made that part of comment, and i admit that I shouldn't judge her immediately, after all even tc doesn't know her how this chinese is.

one thing i may agreed is that they age very well even in their 40s, many of chineses women stiill look alike when they were 25yo, and many, many of them are just 1.6cm tall, small but cute : )

Then the moment they turn 60 they become fat ugly hags Always wondered how it can be possible, but never found a scientific answer...

Spoiler: Sorry for the stereotype, but it needs to be said...

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