Tips on getting over a relationship

[ozzyzak]

Ozzyzak: What did you mean with the "I should have taken it for the warning it was."?
Do you think its a sign to break it up sooner than later? Its just the all nighter felt so nice, like I thought that maybe I had overreacted and stuff. But people tell me I'm too forgiving so I don't know anymore. Damn it!

What I mean is that I put up with shit that in the beginning of a relationship I wouldn't have put up with. She started treating me poorly, and then when things would go back to normal for awhile I'd be happy again and felt that things were fine again. But not too much longer she eventually just broke up with me. It seemed like maybe I should have broken it up sooner rather then letting it drag on. It's a difficult subject to discuss, and you should do what you feel is right. I'm also not the best role model. If the girl came back to me and apologized, I would probably believe it and take her back. I know, I'm a fucking idiot, I don't need to hear it from the lot of you!

 

[kaspal]

heheh... that happens to most of us... when we feel like we really love that other person.

the last girl that this that to me (about 4 years ago), cheated on me TWICE, and when i happened to break up with her for good, i ended up knowin a lotta shit that was happenin while we were "together"...

it took me more than 6 months to get over it (my father died 4 months after i broke up with her to top it off) but here i am...

now i dont take relationships like b4, i dont give my whole in the begginnin until i FEEL its time... and i tell you, its been 4 years and 3 more girls have been in my life... and NONE of those felt like the "one".

so, my advice here is: take it easy, and analize your current relationship with your brain rather than with your heart... it will help you a lil bit not gettin hurt that often... and if so, it wont hurt that much anyway.

we all need company, but sometimes we're better alone.