Banned for thinking there is some reason so complex that any temper couldn't handle it..(OK, there are probably more than few tempers that couldn't handle such reason, but, everyone in this game will get it)
nah, discord is also a shithole. discord is good only if you have your own community with your own rules. or if you re lucky to find some groups that arent shitholes.
as about forums, when i recently revisited some old forums i used to be regular and seeing how immature most members still are i was like "Yeap. Nothing of value has been lost.". Unfortunately it's the good, comfy forums that ended up dead or shut down, especially because of internet centralization.