Can someone tell me what I've done wrong? I made one mistake (which I rarely ever do,) and my girlfriend flips out on how I should organize myself. . . . when almost EVERYTIME we go out, she forgets her bus-pass in that shoulder-mess she calls a purse. Everytime we go to the bank she forgets her Bank Card (even when I ask her if she has it, she says yes.) EveryTIME I pick her up after work, we walk for 5 minutes to the bus stop, and she makes me run back to her work 'cause she forget her iPhone. Everytime important documents are needed, she spends hours and hours turning her room upside down looking for them. So I told her, "Coming from you, you shouldn't yell at me about getting organized." And now she's super super pissed at me. I admit what I said wasn't nice, but the fact that she was yelling at me to "get organized", I figured what better way to defend myself from being put down than let her know she does it ALL THE TIME. Am I being ridiculous or unfair?! Am I being "an asshole", as she so nicely put it?