My wife's Japanese. Excepting Christmas, which is also enjoyed very much in Japan in a quite non-Christian fashion, she pretty much just tolerates American holidays. She really dislikes Halloween. But Thanksgiving is ok by her, provided I do the cooking. So I got serious about this some years ago, and now I turn out a formidable table. Roast turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, gravy, baked mac n cheese, green beans, baked rolls, etc. Nothing is from a mix or kit, all from scratch. Only fresh herbs are used to season the turkey. not dry (makes a huge difference). I do cheat on the dessert though ... pumpkin and pecan pies, bought at Sam's Club. Sam's bakes some righteous pie.