ShadowSoldier said:exangel said:You people who think memorializing this event is just the same thing as opening an old wound really don't understand. I'm also extremely disappointed any of you really feel that way because I remember the 50th anniversary memorial event of Pearl Harbor in 1991, and memorial of the atomic bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki in 1995, even though I was only in elementary school then, the very idea that we should just forget about those things and "Get over it" would never cross our minds. I may not have been there, I may not have lost anyone close to me; no one in my immediate family tree died in Pearl Harbor or WWII either.
Ummm what? You can be disappointed all you want, but there are lots of people in the world who believe moving on and forgetting it is the best way to heal from something. I'm disappointed that you would feel that it's okay to memorialize every year (see what I did there?)
Also, I'm sorry, but even if my parents were or family were killed in an accident, I don't want to memorize the date or the reason why they died, I'd just choose to remember them and nothing else. And if you feel that that's wrong, then you can kindly not reply to anything I say again (not meaning to be rude, but lets be honest, there is no way to say that without sounding rude). It's just how I feel, it's what I believe, and it's what I'll stick with. I don't want to be reminded every year "Oh yeah, my family died in a building" or anything like that, and I know for a fact I'm not the only one who thinks that.
I have never done a thread like this before, this is the first time I've ever even written down what I experienced that day, I'm not talking about every year.
I originally wrote this as a blog, for myself, so I'm a little more protective of what is going on in this thread than I normally would be which is the reason for my reply.
Your attitude is disrespespectful, you have a right to have it, and I have a right to be disappointed that you're not respecting the topic of the thread.