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Dark_Phoras:
Happiness is never looking back and try to return to something we've left behind. It's to be honest with ourselves and discard what doesn't matter -
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Psionic Roshambo:
We have been fighting a lot lately, she was talking to her ex husband and flirting with guys and I caught her, then I became just a monster... Very upset and spying and accusing her of stuff literally almost insane lol -
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Dark_Phoras:
It's a hard situation. You didn't act in the best way and it weighs on you. I don't know, maybe you need time to forgive yourself, and some action from her that you don't ask that reassures her love and commitment
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KenniesNewName:
Ask any woman how she would feel if she never saw you again and stare at her to see how honest her facial expressions are about it women say shit just to make the guy look guilty -
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Dark_Phoras:
What you can do about it, Psionic, is maybe sit with her and calmly share how each action of hers made you feel, and ask her if there's anything she's missing from you or that's bothering her.
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KenniesNewName:
if you gave a woman your all and she wants to flirt with ex's that's on her and probably best to move on if she's just saying things to make you feel better
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Dark_Phoras:
Being so resolute will probably reduce the chances of finding a happy relationship. We must give people space to grow, feel, doubt, question, and we must stand by them, reassure them, love them. And they should do the same to us.
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Psionic Roshambo:
I am willing to forgive her, me that's the tough one, I failed hard on ohhh so many levels lol
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Psionic Roshambo:
No physical stuff, I never even raised my voice... But sometimes the calm words hurt the most
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Psionic Roshambo:
Although honestly, I doubt that was possible. I would rather have had my leg ripped off by a meat grinder than that.
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Dark_Phoras:
Maybe going for walks or a drive alone helps, as well as writing it down. Think about each action that you did and what led you to them. Recognise that how you felt is valid. Rationalize how you could act correctly next time. Then rationalize what you expect from your fiancee, and accept that she's still learning how you are, what hurts you and what makes you happy. Talk with her, be honest. And a relationship requires both people to make an effort; you should be flexible and understanding with her, but verify if the relationship is making you happy and improving your life
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Dark_Phoras:
Maybe going for walks or a drive alone helps, as well as writing it down. Think about each...