when i saw "Have you fallen into the infinite trap?, To many choices." , i thought i may make this topic and solve my problem and one of my friend's forever, here it is: my main problem is RPGs, even action RPGs are not problem like Sword of Mana or Shining Soul II but my main problem is in RPGs like Final Fantasy series! i CANT resist buying them, i REALLY cant, but when it comes to FINISHING them, i SUCK. i searched SO HARD for Wild ARMS $ and when i got it, i went to jut 20minutes of it. same for Final FAntasy X, i played like 5hours. (when it gots to Sphere Grid, i couldnt manage which way to go on sphere grid, so i left it). my main problem i think is that i cant decide what to do with upgrading the statics. like when you character levels up, what to upgrade, HP, MP, etc. i'm scared that if i upgrade my party as i like, i would fail in harder battles since mostly most of types are not balanced and you are forced to follow a category which the game was built based on (like Ninja's in FF3, i like them but a faq said they are bad, so i got pissed off) and mainly hate to look into FAQs since i dont want to spoil the game. could someone help plz?