Lost Friendship Advice (Serious Question)

[ceraphis]

I'm not even as confused about what to do anymore, you guys helped me figure that out.

Now I just like talking about it because I keep it all bottled up. mah ramblin' that is

 

[ridgecity]

looking at how much you write gives me an idea of what kind of person you are, avoid your BRAIN AND JUST GO WITH YOUR HEART, IF IT TELLS YOU IT'S DONE ACCEPT IT, IF IT TELLS YOU STILL CAN PULL THIS OFF, GO FOR IT.

we could come up with tons of solutions that may or may not work for your specific girfriend. maybe you wanna make the perfect thing so you don't blow it forever, but you seem to be putting a lot of stress into your soul for this thing. you say you are very quiet, but you sure do write a lot. lol, why don't why a novel or something?

and you are not insane, it's just that you have to much free time and you use to think of the smallest of details and every possible outcome so nothing unexpected happens, don't worry man. you wanna know my motto?

HAKUNA MATATA.

 

[ceraphis]

lol my best days are the ones when i do what i normally wouldnt do. although I try not to apply it to things like jumping in front of a car.

Itd be awesome if I could apply my desire to write a book towards actually writing said book lol

 

[haohmaru6]

So, like, DO something and tell us the results...?

 

[ceraphis]

sent an email. no reply. I'll probly just call her sometime soon and see if she wants to get a beer

 

[Linkiboy]

then have surprise buttsexz rite

 

[ceraphis]

rite.

 

[ridgecity]

invite to get something to eat, party and bars aren't really nice conversation places. somewhere that reminds her how much you guys had together, always be watching her body language, she might be saying no but her body says yes.

 

[cubin']

buttsex is no good guys. just uncomfortable and hurt

 

[ceraphis]

invite to get something to eat, party and bars aren't really nice conversation places. somewhere that reminds her how much you guys had together, always be watching her body language, she might be saying no but her body says yes.

Well, reason I said that was because she had actually suggested that and thats why I then asked for her #. You're right tho, I would rather go somewhere more comfortable and get lunch or something.

 

[RayorDragonFall]

Look, if she's already suggested it, then why are you wasting your time posting about it an internet forum? Live that thing called life and forget about the computer for a few days. Go outside! I don't know how things can be more obvious, use your brain!

 

[ceraphis]

well just so I can defend myself just a little, really all I wanted to know since I first posted this thread was simply this: has anyone ever emailed someone you were good friends with, and they didnt email you back, for seemingly no reason? Then, I was looking for a suggestion on what to say in a happy birthday email that would be clever or funny.

I really shouldnt have bothered going into all that extra detail, because it doesnt matter all that much. I just like talking about it, and I am very long winded, so I cant stop myself. Don't hate me for it

Oh, and I do have a life, thank you very much. A very enjoyable one. I wont go into more detail because it doesnt matter. Please dont assume that just because I like the atmosphere on gbatemp and think people here are generally pretty nice and helpful, that I don't do anything except stare at a computer all day. Although, if you were just trying to be constructively critical I thank you for the effort.