I was talking about the future of the country, and I absolutely understand what you meant - that's why I'm ridiculing it, as it is in deservement of ridicule.
Again, you're being dishonest. You were talking about the future of the country in response to the election of Georgia's first Black Senator. That was tone-deaf - that's why I'm addressing it, as it is in deservement of being addressed.
Context should be considered in the evaluation. This on-going free participation conversation allows for all concerns to be addressed, and the clarity he gave should clear the air.
Context should absolutely be considered, and that's why his statement wasn't overtly racist; it was tone-deaf.
Let's correct that statement. In an effort to police language on behalf of a metaphorical black audience you told me that a perfectly applicable term was offensive for an arbitrary reason that requires mental gymnastics to even be relevant.
I told you the statement was tone-deaf, and the fact that it requires "mental gymnastics" on your part to see the connection between "dark times" and the first Black Senator from Georgia is part of what makes you tone-deaf.
Nice one, sound strategy to get your own overreaction wiped
I would prefer that the posts don't get deleted. I was cattily offering you an out.
I think I'll keep it, the exchange makes you look sufficiently silly to be worthy of archiving, the local pearl supplier must've been happy to sell out of stock given all the clutching that's going on.
In any case, back to the Senate race, lest we forget that it's still running.
In order for it to be pearl-clutching, I have to actually take offense; I don't. I acknowledged it's tone-deaf. For posterity, let's summarize our posts, shall we?
- You: This guy (who is Black) just won the Georgia senate seat. Dark times ahead.
- Me: Considering you're saying the election of Georgia's first Black Senator is going to cause dark times, that's tone-deaf.
- You: I wasn't being racist.
- Me: I didn't say you were being racist. You are being tone-deaf.
- You: Joe Biden used the phrase "dark times."
- Me: Yeah, but he wasn't talking about Black people.
- You: I wasn't talking about Black people either.
- Me: Warnock is Black.
- You: I still don't understand how it's tone-deaf. Everyone is at fault but me.
- Me: Lack of perception is part of what it means to be tone-deaf.
- You: Yeah, but I don't care how others feel about my words.
- Me: That's also part of what it means to be tone-deaf.
tone-deaf
adjective
2: having or showing an
obtuse insensitivity or
lack of perception particularly in matters of public sentiment, opinion, or taste
So yeah, I'm perfectly happy with how I've conducted myself in this conversation. I hope now this conversation can end sooner rather than later.