When you both are finished to go through ever more formal patterns of speech to address each other, you might notice the - "exeptionalism" that both of you are demanding, nowadays is found not in universities, but in summer schools, and international meetups or exchange programs, and thats also what international corporations are selecting for these days. You get in contact with them there. You get to talk. You get to be groomed.
You can see your entire university education as an entry cost towards that. And if you never have realized that, before your formal education is over - well, its your fault really. Why havent you informed yourselves on how your future employers select nowadays?
The 'value of your education' is this right now. At least in europe. The Bolognia system produced a bunch of young people struggling against insignificance - becoming more and more cut-throat and conformistic in the process.
When they are at the point, where they are finally at the paid industry events, or the preselectors - they are showing their finest facebook selves, promoting selfcensored behavior - even in base level political discussions, only to have a chance at being considered for an advanced career.
That all the system apparently was spun up to produce. So more competition at the academical level (you now get a degree for only investing two and a half years), and then preselecting for most ruthless, most conformist, most driven, most popular... and of course high IQ and willing to put it to work for international corporations of renown. The best people you usually also dont find in startup scenes. (Heck, you didnt even find Steve Jobs there...)
That parents were willing to pay more, and didnt tell their children what was required of them currently, hardly was the universities fault.
None of the current outcome is seen as a problem. Give the SJWs some low paying jobs, where they can tell the world, that each individuals self image is a problem, and that the corporation they work with has morals (for that plus in consumer loyalty), and all the 'higher degree' folks (but not really), have a place in life.
You brought more risk into the university education market, by not preselecting earlier. Was that the fault of universities?