Is my friend getting used?

[Nero]

I'm kinda worried about him. So yeah...

Alright, at school on Thursday, my friend decided to buy a shoe for the chick he likes.

It's this one: Tha Shoes

Neither of us really have no idea how much it costs, he just saw it and showed it to her.

So on Friday, she suddenly asks him out at the end of the day.

They only knew each other for a few months... He keeps calling me and he seems really worried about her using him for the shoes. (Basically, only having a relationship for the shoes)

Yeah... I'm glad I don't have relationships like this.

Sucks to buy love.

~Nero

 

[kellyan95]

Just one shoe?

Could be, could not be, you won't know until the end of the relationship

 

[Nero]

Just one shoe?

Could be, could not be, you won't know until the end of the relationship

Yeah, I guess so.

It's gonna suck to be him though...

~Nero

 

[xcalibur]

go out and ask your girlfriend to pay
that way youll know if its just for teh munies

 

[BoneMonkey]

yep he is getting used

is he at least getting some ?

 

[Veho]

(Basically, only having a relationship for the shoes)

There's a name for girls and boys who enter relationships in exchange for gifts...
(Relationship boiling down to sex, and gifts boiling down to money. Everything else is just decoration.)

You're right to feel weird about that, it sounds weird to me too. Maybe it's just the way you laid it out that makes me agree with your assumption. He should be careful about that girl.

Why would he want to buy her shoes in the first place?

Most people start with flowers or candy.



(And the shoes are ugly, by the way

)

 

[test84]

Just one shoe?

Could be, could not be, you won't know until the end of the relationship

hmm, so she's maybe after another one, so she can have a pair at last.

 

[Nero]

go out and ask your girlfriend to pay
that way youll know if its just for teh munies

I said my friend... Not me.

Yeah sure, you've all heard it. People usually say when other people talk about "my friend" in a relationship, it's usually themselves.

Well this time, it's not.

I've already got a hot girl on my hands, and I love her to hell.

~Nero

ADD: Yes, I did realize those shoes are ugly.

Maybe she liked them because she's an athletic type of chick.

 

[xcalibur]

go out and ask your girlfriend to pay
that way youll know if its just for teh munies

I said my friend... Not me.

Yeah sure, you've all heard it. People usually say when other people talk about "my friend" in a relationship, it's usually themselves.

Well this time, it's not.

I've already got a hot girl on my hands, and I love her to hell.

~Nero

ADD: Yes, I did realize those shoes are ugly.

Maybe she liked them because she's an athletic type of chick.

Tell your friend to ask his g/f to pay
happy?

 

[Nero]

go out and ask your girlfriend to pay
that way youll know if its just for teh munies

I said my friend... Not me.

Yeah sure, you've all heard it. People usually say when other people talk about "my friend" in a relationship, it's usually themselves.

Well this time, it's not.

I've already got a hot girl on my hands, and I love her to hell.

~Nero

ADD: Yes, I did realize those shoes are ugly.

Maybe she liked them because she's an athletic type of chick.

Tell your friend to ask his g/f to pay
happy?

Seriously.. It's not me.

I already have a girlfriend! Cheesesticks... Been with her since July.

~Nero

 

[Nero]

(Basically, only having a relationship for the shoes)

There's a name for girls and boys who enter relationships in exchange for gifts...
(Relationship boiling down to sex, and gifts boiling down to money. Everything else is just decoration.)

You're right to feel weird about that, it sounds weird to me too. Maybe it's just the way you laid it out that makes me agree with your assumption. He should be careful about that girl.

Why would he want to buy her shoes in the first place?

Most people start with flowers or candy.



(And the shoes are ugly, by the way

)

Because he's rich enough to smash up a PS3?

~Nero

 

[Veho]

Because he's rich enough to smash up a PS3?

Oh. Well, that explains it, then. She figured out he was rich (and wasn't stingy). Superficial chicks are attracted to money. Meh.

And if those shoes won't leave a dent in his budget, then he's not being used.

 

[xcalibur]

AW GAWD
THOSE SHOES ARE VISUAL RAPE

stab your friends girlfriend even if she likes him for him
people like her are not allowed to reproduce
thats why we have endless drivel like commercial rap and fifas produced time after time because people like that go out in droves to buy it

 

[tomqman]

does sound a bit like hes being used but yet again she might of thought he was kind

 

[Nero]

Because he's rich enough to smash up a PS3?
Oh. Well, that explains it, then. She figured out he was rich (and wasn't stingy). Superficial chicks are attracted to money. Meh.

And if those shoes won't leave a dent in his budget, then he's not being used.

Why exactly is that?

It's money.

~Nero

 

[Veho]

It's money.Â

~Nero

It's not the absolute amount that matters, it's the percentage of his allowance. So he buys shoes that cost 10 percent of his allowance (figures pulled out of my ass for the purpose of this illustration). Let's say you take your girlfriend to the cinema, and pay for the tickets, and the tickets add up to 20% of your allowance. He's spending 10% of his allowance on a girl, you're spending 20%, and yet you say he's the one being used?

 

[Nero]

It's money. 

~Nero

It's not the absolute amount that matters, it's the percentage of his allowance. So he buys shoes that cost 10 percent of his allowance (figures pulled out of my ass for the purpose of this illustration). Let's say you take your girlfriend to the cinema, and pay for the tickets, and the tickets add up to 20% of your allowance. He's spending 10% of his allowance on a girl, you're spending 20%, and yet you say he's the one being used?

Good point. He said it'll cost around $100.

Whatever, let's just see how this turns out.

It's gonna be interesting.

I'll keep you guys updated.

~Nero

 

[BoneMonkey]

 

[RayorDragonFall]

What the hell? If someone out of the blue bought me shoes (out of my family circle) I would be freaked out. First of all? Shoes?! And....how did he know what number I use?!