I know most of you kids are too young to know anything about marriage but I figure maybe some people may know a thing or two to prepare me?? So far I am giving a girl X amount of dollars split in 3 portions...one up front, one after the papers go through and final part in 2 years when I become legal. I am paying a lot of money and don't want to blow this....get denied at the interview...so anybody here ever do what I am doing? Anybody able to give me some advise? If its a fake marriage do I still get wedding gifts from you all???