I hate these situations

[XXLANCEXX]

OK out of all my life i only had 4 G/Fs
OK so Ive been dating this girl for about 8 months
and found out shes now pregnant and its not mine
and we already have a child and my ex G/F pulled this
same stunt.... Shes begging me to come back home and
i said hell no im not coming back cause you ruined our
life and our son life.... shes the one that betrayed me and slept with another guy
....I hate this.. I don't think im gonna get another relationship
with any female and im not gonna turn gay not that they're anything
wrong with it....I hate my Relationship life

 

[TLSS_N]

well, idk if this could count as worse when it comes to relationships.. but aia know a guy who has lets his ex gf, son, and her bf live under his house... and he pays all the bills!! ... last i heard they went out to vegas to get married, while he watched there kid.

does that count as worse?

 

[LeoSan]

God damn dude, stop being so self centered.

Edited without taking into account out-of-context speculation:
Stop complaining and do something about your kid. It's your responsability.

 

[Bluelaserman]

I don't think this is the best outlet to express feelings and problems.

 

[Fear Zoa]

I don't think this is the best outlet to express feelings and problems.

You would be surprised, you don't really have to show true emotion but you still get feedback from others, sometimes just a few comments from anyone can help

as for the OP, I feel bad for you, that really is a terrible situation to be in.... almost makes me glad I've been single the past few years

 

[jan777]

Blogs would have been a better place.

Man, I feel bad for you.

 

[Phoenix Goddess]

I don't think this is the best outlet to express feelings and problems.

Actually, this site is great for issues like this because plenty of people give their input.

Might wanna have this moved to your blog, Lance.
I'm sorry about your situation, but I agree with what someone else here said, take care of your child on your own, take responsibility and be a father.
Don't worry so much about your love life when you have someone to take care of. That should be your main priority.

 

[Bluelaserman]

However, I don't think we should judge or give opinions/ideas, since we don't know the full scale of this dilemma. Also some of us are under the age of 18 and probably have no experience with marriage/relationships and "real" responsibilities.

 

[Phoenix Goddess]

However, I don't think we should judge or give opinions/ideas, since we don't know the full scale of this dilemma. Also some of us are under the age of 18 and probably have no experience with marriage/relationships and "real" responsibilities.

That's easily solved with not posting :/

 

[LeoSan]

Also some of us are under the age of 18 and probably have no experience with marriage/relationships and "real" responsibilities.
Yes, some others are 19 years old and don't have any either.

QUOTEI don't think this is the best outlet to express feelings and problems.

I agree to a certain point, but as long as the topic is open, I wanted to tell OP to focus on what is important instead of losing time in self-pity that has no answer and won't take him anywhere.
Maybe the idea of the topic was everyone posting their laments towards his situation and letting him sink while forgetting the life of the most important person in his life.

 

[Bluelaserman]

Though, how can anyone give an opinion or idea. We don't know his financial state or his mental state. To advise him to do anything would be ridiculous and could end in a worst state than he is in now.

 

[LeoSan]

Though, how can anyone give an opinion or idea. We don't know his financial state or his mental state. To advise him to do anything would be ridiculous and could end in a worst state than he is in now.

You have a point there.