I fail as a man

[Edgedancer]

So yeah, girls may see us guys as only caring about sex, but as you can see from our experiences, that's total bullshit.

+1
That it exactly what I reckon. You put that perfectly.

 

[Jamstruth]

In all seriousness, the same thing is happening to me. It's hard to get over someone, but eventually you'll see that some girls like to "flirt" around. They like the attention, and usually girls like that aren't worth your time. So cheer up, and find someone else to occupy your time.
She isn't like that. She only acts like this around friends. Its not just "Pick a random guy and flirt with him". If she acted like that I probably wouldn't be her friend and wouldn't be as obsessed with her as I am. I go for personality over looks and this girl loves all the same things I do.

QUOTE(Thoob @ Dec 29 2010, 10:19 PM) I know how you feel man. I mean, I know loads of people will say that, but literally, I'm in exactly your position. At a party a few weeks ago, the girl I'm "in love" with was straddled over me, trying to do stuff. I mean, she grabbed my hands and put them on her tits for God's sake. And I fucking pulled my hands away! Something I'd dreamed of doing, and I don't do it because there were no feelings behind it. Still don't know what's going to happen with us... she was going out with a guy at the time, but she broke up with him a few weeks ago. Ach, I'll probably do another blog about that soon enough.

So yeah, girls may see us guys as only caring about sex, but as you can see from our experiences, that's total bullshit.

Take a look at the front cover of Cosmo and you'll think that all women care about is sex too. Being close friends with a variety of girls has allowed me to see that they can be just as dirty as guys. They're just not as crude about it.

As for the other thing, its nice to know other people react the same way to things like this. I wanted to kiss her so badly but I'm really working hard to get over her and making out with her is not helpful to that cause at all...

 

[Arithmatics]

In all seriousness, the same thing is happening to me. It's hard to get over someone, but eventually you'll see that some girls like to "flirt" around. They like the attention, and usually girls like that aren't worth your time. So cheer up, and find someone else to occupy your time.
She isn't like that. She only acts like this around friends. Its not just "Pick a random guy and flirt with him". If she acted like that I probably wouldn't be her friend and wouldn't be as obsessed with her as I am. I go for personality over looks and this girl loves all the same things I do.

QUOTE(Thoob @ Dec 29 2010, 10:19 PM) I know how you feel man. I mean, I know loads of people will say that, but literally, I'm in exactly your position. At a party a few weeks ago, the girl I'm "in love" with was straddled over me, trying to do stuff. I mean, she grabbed my hands and put them on her tits for God's sake. And I fucking pulled my hands away! Something I'd dreamed of doing, and I don't do it because there were no feelings behind it. Still don't know what's going to happen with us... she was going out with a guy at the time, but she broke up with him a few weeks ago. Ach, I'll probably do another blog about that soon enough.

So yeah, girls may see us guys as only caring about sex, but as you can see from our experiences, that's total bullshit.

Take a look at the front cover of Cosmo and you'll think that all women care about is sex too. Being close friends with a variety of girls has allowed me to see that they can be just as dirty as guys. They're just not as crude about it.

As for the other thing, its nice to know other people react the same way to things like this. I wanted to kiss her so badly but I'm really working hard to get over her and making out with her is not helpful to that cause at all...

crude = conservational.

Your dick says yes but your brain says no.

It was a good decision to stop. Because it would just hurt you more. (unless the thought of a one night stand with no ties just to know how it felt like hurt you more than that).

 

[SilentGhost]

ma gud somthink iz wong wi u

We have all had ...odd things like that happen to us.
It's just we all don't type it out

so your becoming souja boy now? xD
(ray william johnsen quote)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DXRQH8j0Oc

 

[imshortandrad]

You made the right decision. And it's nice to know that not all guys are obsessed with the sexual aspect of a relationship.

I think that it's okay you didn't do anything, because you are right, there were no feelings behind that.

 

[Arithmatics]

ma gud somthink iz wong wi u

We have all had ...odd things like that happen to us.
It's just we all don't type it out

so your becoming souja boy now? xD
(ray william johnsen quote)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DXRQH8j0Oc

oh gawsh lol that brings me back SO LONG!

haven't seen that vid in years well more like months.. lol

 

[SilentGhost]

ma gud somthink iz wong wi u

We have all had ...odd things like that happen to us.
It's just we all don't type it out

so your becoming souja boy now? xD
(ray william johnsen quote)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0DXRQH8j0Oc

oh gawsh lol that brings me back SO LONG!

haven't seen that vid in years well more like months.. lol

I've been watching him since that video