![[M]artin](/data/avatars/l/53/53229.jpg?1568173037){kind=avatar}
Introducing yourself is always the hard part. Once you get that out of the way, everything else comes naturally.
Try to find something that she finds interest in or has an opinion on. It may not always be something physical. For example, last week I decided to introduce myself to this cute girl that sat in the row in front of me in one of my classes. I had never talked to her, it was the first week of school and all. Our teacher had assigned a ridiculously hard project that was to be turned in in less than a week and of course, the class was all groans. She briefly turned around, and when our eyes connected, I just let out a line. It's all about waiting for the right moment, taking it, and running with it. I sympathized with her on the difficulty on the project and then built on it. Started talking about the different styles that we might be using and we even traded sketchbooks to view each others work. Compliments are your friend. I pointed out a number of her sketches and told her how I loved the style and such. Also, the more you talk, the easier it gets. I furthered our conversations by asking her what she used to create certain stuff, how long it took, things like that. Eye contact is a must. Whenever you speak to a girl, don't forget the eye contact and listening intently when she speaks to you. It lets her know that you're interested in what she's saying. Always show confidence. Don't show signs of shakiness of nervousness, be calm, as if you were talking to one of your friends that you've known for years. Also, get her to smile. Use humor, compliments, whatever, just by getting her to smile, you'll know that you're on the right track. Don't be afraid to smile and laugh yourself, as well. Once both of you are smiling, you'll feel more free and open to her than you were before (and vice versa), making it very easy to come up and talk to her whenever you feel like doing so.
