How to tell a girl likes you?

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Oct 25, 2007
  1. superrob
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    Well im 14 and totaly unexpierenced with love....
    Acturly i never had a girlfriend.... which sucks...

    Im currently in love with one from my class....
    But i dont know if she likes me too......

    Please give me some tips [​IMG]
     


  2. TaeK

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    Be up front with her.

    Does she know you even exist? Do you talk to her? Do you talk to her friends?

    You're still young, at 14, you have plenty of time for experiences.
     
  3. Mewgia

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    ohi I'm in the same situation

    :S

    [edit] except its probably not really love and neither is yours lol
     
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    I really hate this expression, but:
    LOL@ Im currently in love with one from my class....
    Ha [​IMG]
    Anyway, I prefer the indirect approach, befriend her and get to know her, then when you are comfortable with her, ask her out to a movie. Don't specify if its a date or a friend thing, let her decide.
    If you can't tell if she "digs" you after that point, assume she does not.
     
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    Try telling her a crappy joke. If she laughs at it she likes you or the jokes is actually good.
     
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    Same here [​IMG]
     
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    Chances are you guys are right, but ya never know. I fell in love with a girl at 14 and I'm still in love with her now. We broke up a few months ago but...eh whatever. You never know kiddos...
     
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    place your balls on her chin if she likes that she proabably likes you
     
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  10. Maktub

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    Alternatively, cut your dick, give it to her as a gift and if she still decides to go on with you even lacking dick, she LOVES you, not jsut like you.
    Else, GTFO and get banned from life.
    Nah, just kidding.
    Well, ask her when you feel it's the right moment. If she doesn't, she'll at least know you're there. Also, sometimes you win, some other times you lose. That makes life kinda funny.
     
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    Let me give you some tips: until you're a bit older and can handle the fucking wrath of girls, stay far far away. You need to be able to say "sorry" with a fucking straight face (even when you've done nothing wrong) when it all goes to hell. Because it will. I imagine you're probably pretty to close to her? If not you might stand a chance, you just have to get to know her and try not to get too close because if you do you've got no chance and will end up a "best friend". You have to have qualities that she's into (sorry but it's true) and you have to be able to make her smile a little (that's enough usually). OH, and most of the time, don't believe the signs. You can NEVER tell when a girl likes you, SHE TELLS YOU.

    Also, BoneMonkey, you're a fucking AssMonkey. I hate you.

    The end.
     
  12. BoneMonkey

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    im going to put that in my signature
     
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    Aren't you supposed to pass notes at the age of 14? .... like
    "Who do you like?"

    or the god forsaken scale:
    "On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you like TaeK?"

    "On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you like TaeK superrob?"

    I think your supposed to tell her friend that you like her...then let her friend help you... sorry been a decade and a half since I was 14
     
  14. BoneMonkey

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    Listen up all the advice in this thread sucks just grow balls and do this


    superrob - hey girl i have a hardon for i like you alot wanna go out see a movie ?

    girlsuperrobhasahardonfor - Sure :-) !


    if she says no say this

    superrob - ha ! i only asked you out cuase ppl said you were easy slut


    /end thread
     
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    Well unfortunately there are many situations.
    I've had quite a bit of experience especially recently...

    There are several types of approaches, the most common one at your age is when the girl shows interest in you, in a rather obvious way.
    When I was 13 (> 7 years ago now [​IMG] ) that's how I had my first girlfriend, she was like "wow" at everything I did, she wrote me letters, etc. you get the idea.
    There are also girls who you've never met or noticed, and suddenly ask you out. Hate them [​IMG] how are you supposed to date someone you've never talked to before? Feels extremely uncomfortable when they ask.

    Lately (actually a few months ago) I've been going out with a girl who I didn't know before, and I had no idea she was into me as much as I was into her. I hadn't noticed any interest on her side, but I was very attracted so I just asked her out and it turns out she was in love with me since the first time we met [​IMG] So.. you see, girls can be quiet but have feelings nonetheless! Maybe that's a situation you wouldn't face at your age, and anyway I don't know how it works in Denmark!
     
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    Here's a thought (from an old-timer): ask her how she feels about you. [​IMG]

    Additionally, tell her how you feel about her, and see what her response is. Communication is a wonderful thing.
     
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    Never follow advices from deductive people.
    That is, people thinking their personal experience is equal to some sort of universal truth and keep on spitting aphorisms that sound cool.
    Or do, that above was just another example of aphorism.
    Also, ShadowXP answered to a question which should be something closer to: "HOW TO CONQUER A BRAINLESS GIRL", which may be what you really meant by telling "Replying to How to tell a girl likes you?", but assuming that is not something I'd do.
     
  18. Maktub

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    lol, right
    you're from denmark, I hadn't nocticed.
    You see, I had this Swedish gf for two years, we had the theory that most of you nordic "men" are cold icy faggots*.
    Sadly, most girls I've asked (and I've done with quite many) agreed with me.
    By this, we meant that no man up there ever asks women out, they don't even show any interest. I don't know what's with that, but seems like they feel super ashamed of showing any interest on the female gender.

    Prove me wrong and ask her out.

    *: this had an exception with finns, which are quite different from danes, norweigans and swedes in general terms. Also, if you're a very very warm hearted and passionable and cool and strong and tall and hot guy and you asked girls out, nice! Then you're not into those "general terms". And if you think I'm talking bullshit, nice! then don't give a shit about what you just read.
     
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    if you wanting to get better with women, read a book called the game by neil strauss..... quite good [​IMG]
     
  20. Novaxis

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    No need to wonder if a girl likes me when I do THIS.

    After that, you already know what her answer will be... [​IMG]
     

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