(I haven't a clue where to post this so I posting it here) I've got really strict and critical parents and I've began to notice the long term effects it has caused me , my parents aren't bad they just think there way is right and of course i guess its there culture,The consistent overruling makes the me feel like my opinions doesn't matter. If i ever question them its "parents are always right" They expects me to behave in a 'mature' way ... more or less like a 'civilized' adult. However, despite this and that I am an adult, they treat me like an inferior kid. I start doing household chores on my own without being asked like cleaning and doing dishes even hanging cloths instead of praising me they criticize me and say oh your doing it wrong and instead do it for me. if I try to talk to them about stuff I door my hobbies like gaming they would reply "instead of wasting our time with gaming why don't you study?" almost every convo about unrelated things turns into this criticism, despite this I study medicine at university even when I get 100% in an exam they wouldn't praise me instead they would say "you should always get this" . this has all left me emotionally detached and I have difficulties with close relationships which require intimacy and emotional honesty and sharing. it's difficult for me to start a job or do something in front of people, I automatically think they already dislike me or think that I have stuffed up already. the damage is done but can I recover from this and how?