How to make sure a girl likes you

[cubin']

when she talks to you see if her knees are facing toward you when she's sitting down. if they're off to the side she might not like you.

so said my old english teacher anyway..

 

[zeppo]

that... makes no sense...

besides, most of the time when I talk to her we're on the bus. so, she would have to put her legs in the aisle and I'd have to be in the seat across...

 

[hollabackitsobi]

that... makes no sense...

besides, most of the time when I talk to her we're on the bus. so, she would have to put her legs in the aisle and I'd have to be in the seat across...

Actually, it does. Body language speaks VOLUMES, not only in situations like this, but in life in general. If someone isn't looking at you or leaning their body in your direction while they're talking to you, it generally means they aren't interested in talking to you. In a chick's case, if she looks directly at you while talking and makes contact (like a hand on the knee or something, or the arm, etc.), that generally means shes into you. The more "open" her body is, ie. the more she's facing you and stuff, the more she's into you. This is some of the stuff you notice if you've got an eye for it...

 

[zeppo]

she definitely looks directly at me and in my eyes when she talks. no physical contact, though... Should I try sitting in the same seat as her?

 

[Sonicslasher]

now only if I had a girlfriend......

 

[Nero]

she definitely looks directly at me and in my eyes when she talks. no physical contact, though... Should I try sitting in the same seat as her?

Just go up to her and say "I like you"

If she says it back, then congrats.

If she doesn't, then at least you went down trying.

Good luck.

(Eye contact during conversations doesn't really mean anything)

~Nero

 

[zeppo]

I'd rather do something with less risk... so, should I try sitting in her seat?

 

[test84]

go ask her up, what you will lose?

 

[Trippy]

I'd rather do something with less risk... so, should I try sitting in her seat?

If you mean the same bus seat as she does, yes. That'll at least give her a subtle clue. It's a good start.

 

[hollabackitsobi]

Eye contact means a lot. If someone isn't interested in you, they'll look away (it isn't just that they hate your ugly face!). And dude, if you don't take risks, you'll get nowhere. I used to be kinda like you in 6th and 7th grade, but 8th grade and later (I'm a junior now) that shyness is gone. I'm not a "pimp" or a "playa" by any means, but when I see a girl I'm interested in, I'll go up and talk to her without worries, and we usually end up going out, if only once, just to get a feel for each other.

Also, getting shot down is natural, but that doesn't mean she won't come back to you later (it's happened to me), so don't worry about that either. As they say, there's plenty of fish in the sea, and if you ask her out confidently the first time and she says no, she might have a change of heart later. Peace.

 

[zeppo]

I'd rather do something with less risk... so, should I try sitting in her seat?

If you mean the same bus seat as she does, yes. That'll at least give her a subtle clue. It's a good start.

K. I'll try to do that on tuesday (tomorrow's veteran's day)

 

[RiotShooter]

ha man i am kinda in the same situation. i like this girl and we make a descent amount of eye contact when we are around each other but the only problem is i only see her a couple times a week. i've havent really talked to her in person cause i get nervous. but we have talked over myspace(yes i know its lame) my friend says she is into me but i'm not too sure... help

 

[zeppo]

If you only talk on myspace, you can't really hope for much...

 

[RiotShooter]

ya thats what i figured. i think i am gonna make more of an effort to try and talk to her in person now.

 

[Linkiboy]

she definitely looks directly at me and in my eyes when she talks. no physical contact, though... Should I try sitting in the same seat as her?


Just go up to her and say "I like you"

If she says it back, then congrats.

If she doesn't, then at least you went down trying.

Good luck.

(Eye contact during conversations doesn't really mean anything)

~Nero

NO

Don't do that. A girl who I go to for girl advise(...) once told me that. She said that it "will creep them out".

Also, a question. How should you handle a rejection? I don't really know what I would say, would I just walk away, or what?

 

[zeppo]

exactly my thoughts.

 

[test84]

go ask her up, what you will lose?

i'm gonna do this advice myself.
i dont give a shit how she will/do think about me, even if she says no, it still victory for me, partial one.

 

[zeppo]

bad idea man. It'll ruin your friendship.
I think I'm just gonna raise my eyebrows in a suggestive manner and see how she reacts.

 

[Taras]

Dude. I hope she's a foreign exchange student, because American females aren't worth nearly this much deliberation and effort. You'll know

 

[hollabackitsobi]

You've got to be CONFIDENT when you ask her out, so if she rejects you, it won't be nearly as bad as if you were nervous. Plus, getting rejected is actually very rare. If you come at a girl in a COOL, RELAXED and CONFIDENT manner, the likelihood of a rejection is near nil. You might not go out on a second date, but girls hardly ever reject an at least average looking guy who puts himself out well.