How can I get a girl?

Discussion in 'General Off-Topic Chat' started by GolenSun550, Apr 20, 2010.

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give me some advices.

  1. Change myself,perform face-lifting to be Brad Pitt

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  2. Get rich , then girl will find me , I don't need to find a girl.

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  3. I don't need a girl, just want a sextoy.

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  4. Change my sex to be a girl.

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  5. Say love to any girls on the streets.

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  6. Just go to bed, there will be a girl in dream.

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  1. GolenSun550
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    Topic.

    Be serious !
     


  2. CrimzonEyed

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    find someone you love maybe?
     
  3. GolenSun550
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    I have not met a girl I love for over 20 years, how could that happen???
     
  4. Edgedancer

    Edgedancer Director of Moon based operations

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    Your definately making it easy to be serious aren't you. [​IMG]
    Id say if you actually want help, just try to be firends with girls before attempting to gain a relationship. I can almost guarentee you will learn their ways and that will help when approaching them in the future.
     
  5. mthrnite

    mthrnite So it goes.

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    Simple, go to places where girls are. Start with "outside" and work your way outward from there.

    I'll continue my lesson when I get the rest of it figured out.
     
  6. CrimzonEyed

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    don't ask me have not had a girlfriend since i was 8-9 years old (im 19).
    thats my own foult for being way to shy. :/
     
  7. GolenSun550
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    Oh man , you understand me.

    It is a joker but at the same time I now have become a friend with a girl , but don't know how to do next.
     
  8. r3dfaction

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    just asking, whose that girl in your sig? random pic or someone you like?
     
  9. GolenSun550
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    random pic , do you like her?
     
  10. r3dfaction

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    I think you know the answer [​IMG]
     
  11. _Chaz_

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    Two Options


    One:
    • Be an asshole to your friends and people around you.
    • Get girl.
    • Treat the girl you have like a piece of shit.
    • Have a penis.
    People may hate you and your 'girlfriend' is nothing more than a sex-toy, but hey you have a girl.



    Two:
    • Be a nice guy.
    • Befriend the girl you like and get to know her.
    • Make sure neither person is just in it for sex (it won't be good).
    • Build a relationship.
    • You now have a girl who understands you and vice versa.
    • Rejoice.
    This option may take a little longer, but it's worth it for obvious reasons.
     
  12. GolenSun550
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    Thanks for your reply.
    Generic guys should chooses the second option , me too , it takes me a very very long time to perform be interested in some shit I don't like.

    And this situation will last for a long time . It hard to be a nice guy to get a girl , this called true love ??

    [​IMG]
     
  13. GolenSun550
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    This girl is from TaiWan.
     
  14. VashTS

    VashTS Beat it, son

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    Its difficult to say and I never believed it but girls come eventually. Unless you are locked in a house for most of the day.

    As an adult, if I wasn't married or had a girlfriend, I would not meet any chicks. Meeting friends as an adult is awkward and weird. I have not made 1 friend since I was about 8 or 9 ( and me and that guy are still friends, more like brothers than anything.) Its weird to ask another adult, "hey you want to come over and hang out". Closest I ever get is come over i'll buy some beer. then i can at least drink to make the awkwardness go away.

    This applies to both men and women, but with women its about 10x as weird, because its almost impossible to just "hang out" with a chick, especially with booze involved. there is not a single girl i've ever met who I would seriously be interested in just sitting around and shooting the shit with.
     
  15. r3dfaction

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    Ok thanks for the reply [​IMG]

    Anyways back on topic, I think saying funny stuff (just don't degrade yourself) attracts women. Now there are different people with different taste in the sense of personality. Understand that looks aren't everything, the type of person is what counts (although beauty would be preffered). Be yourself and just look for the common between each other. Thats all I can suggest from a 19-year old guy who has had no relationship, yet...
     
  16. juggernaut911

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    Step 1: Don't ask on the internet.
     
  17. Hakoda

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    Its been proven, flattering a girl constantly will get her to like you. There's a difference between complimenting her and hitting on her. Maybe. Kind of.
     
  18. ddetkowski

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    Grow some Kahona's
     
  19. Vulpes Abnocto

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    Stop looking.

    The best ones show up when you expect them the least.

    If you find someone you can stand to be annoyed by for the rest of your life;
    don't let go...come hell, high water, or jail time.
     
  20. nycsam786

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    Some of these replies are very amusing.