I tried using smash bros already, though the region for my SSB is US while my wii is japanese? not sure if that matters, but my wii can no longer read it though? and I'll look into the other options!

Thanks!
I'm still curious, why is it you bought a Japanese Wii to play US games? (EDIT: Finally realized you have a mod chip Wii. You can do everything you were able to do before WITHOUT a modchip.) Never mind that though, it's in the past now. If and when you manage to get it running again, please sell it off and buy a used American Wii (Edit: then you can sofmod it). This way you can start from scratch and don't have to get confused with the regions. What I think there may have been some accidental conflict between the two regions and their updates. When you update your Wii using a game (when it won't let you play without updating), it doesn't retrieve the newest update from the NUS (Nintendo Update Server). The update is actually located on the game disk (and yes... I'm not a dumbass; I've looked inside a Wii game before). This is a way that Nintendo can keep everyone up to date even if you are not connected to the Internet. Seeing that you're using a Japanese Wii that plays any region of game to play a US regioned game which has a US system menu update on it, your Japanese Wii may have somehow allowed itself to install a US menu update. Seems puzzling that could occur. This could be a reason (among obvious others which currently don't apply right now with today's current firmware/Wii menu compatibility) you should not update your Wii and set it up so you won't ever have to for any new game with either the Priiloader (or something) or an alternate game loader.
On the more helpful side, ask DeadlyFoez for some help on what he is suggesting. I think he's trying to tell you how to get things running without using a game disk. I'll edit if I missed something...
[EDIT] I'm sorry, I thought you said you COULD access the Wii menu... So, are you saying that you can no longer get your Wii to come on (do anything)? This sounds like a bricked Wii, so I must be missing something.
[QUOTE name=Desparation]
So I installed modwii and it asks me for it's current system menu, but I can not access the menu because I updated my wii I'm assuming it's 4.3?
also which exploit do I use?
Edited by Desperation, Yesterday, 05:42 PM.[/quote]
Since the current system menu is probably corrupt, as well as the one before that I'm sure, I'm not sure if the ModWii thing will work. Can anyone familiar with ModWii recommend Desparation to use any menu version in his setup without screwing something up on his Wii?