Have you ever just flicked your mood to feel really upset without any reason to?

[TheKawaiiPug]

Title's self explanatory.

I just tried to do some of my new colouring book, gave up after a few minutes because I just felt terribly depressed for no reason... even posting this I' m trying not to cry, I'm hardly like this... (tear just dropped now as a matter of fact)

I just suddenly thought I've wasted so much time when I could have done the sort of thing like colouring and drawing more... then other depressing thoughts just went into my head... ;-; I feel really alone right now, and there's no one I really can talk to irl about my feelings and such...

As I said I don't really have this happen to me but it snapped on I was fine earlier...

 

[DinohScene]

Coming from someone who's emotionally instable, I learned meself to not give a fuck about pretty much everything
Having a laid back attitude is the way to go.
No more stress, no more depression (although it sometimes comes up) no more problems.

World around you is a messed up place.
People can't keep to themselves and have to interfere with everyone.
Bosses expect miracles performed from you, people get mad about the tiniest thing.
You can't please everyone, just be happy with yourself and fuck the rest.

Just keep on repeating to yourself: "take it easy, if you can't do it today, then do it tomorrow*"

*with certain limitations ofcourse.

 

[TheKawaiiPug]

@DinohScene I see what you mean but if like something eg someone close to you dying you can't just not give a fuck about it... for most things though you could just not care.

 

[DinohScene]

Taking it literally isn't what I meant.
Family (for the part you care about) and loved ones obviously belong into your inner circle.

The rest of the people, ie. old classmates you never speak to anymore or people you talked to twice or thrice in public etc.
Those are the people you shouldn't care about.
If you keep on keeping them in consideration then you'll never be able to satisfy yourself.

It kinda sounds egocentric but you need to see yourself as the most important thing (ofcourse, don't become a knobhead and be a twat to everyone)
Once you stand firm in that, you'll notice that others and other things won't drag you down that quickly.

If you'd need advice (please do not take the advice I give you literally) or want to explain what yer going through, HMU.

 

[TheKawaiiPug]

@DinohScene Yeah I agree and yeah I let too much affect me for some reason.

Left a like but wish I could leave more than that.

 

[Seriel]

Coming from someone who's emotionally instable, I learned meself to not give a fuck about pretty much everything
Having a laid back attitude is the way to go.
No more stress, no more depression (although it sometimes comes up) no more problems.

World around you is a messed up place.
People can't keep to themselves and have to interfere with everyone.
Bosses expect miracles performed from you, people get mad about the tiniest thing.
You can't please everyone, just be happy with yourself and fuck the rest.

Just keep on repeating to yourself: "take it easy, if you can't do it today, then do it tomorrow*"

*with certain limitations ofcourse.

Aaand you wrote my post for me. Thanks. Basically this^^

 

[DinohScene]

It's not something you can do overnight.
Months if not years will pass before you finally found a balance.

But hey, cheer up, you got a lot to learn, you're only 14.
Plenty of time to fully enjoy being a kid and be ignorant.
Before you know it, you'll be stuck paying bills for the rest of your life.

 

[VinsCool]

But hey, cheer up, you got a lot to learn, you're only 14.
Plenty of time to fully enjoy being a kid and be ignorant.
Before you know it, you'll be stuck paying bills for the rest of your life.

So.Much.Fuckin.This.

 

[TheKawaiiPug]

@DinohScene Yeah, you lose a lot as you get older. Not just people but life becomes really hard and serious. (not to mention it's going to be so worse in the UK this time 2 years)

 

[DinohScene]

All the more reason for you to stop bickering about it.
Live it up, have a party with yourself and most important of all stay positive.

Everything in the world has only one goal and that's to make your life as miserable as it can be.

 

[Flame]

"Before you know it, you'll be stuck paying bills for the rest of your life."
"you'll be stuck paying bills for the rest of your life."
"rest of your life."
"rest of your life."
"rest of your life."

that's some dark shit right there @DinohScene

 

[mgrev]

well yeah. as @DinohScene said, i try to not give a fuck about anything, but it just keeps coming anyway

 

[Flame]

I recommend that you do sport/exercise if you can. Its good for general health and keeping the mind healthy too.

 

[Supster131]

Oh yeah, happens all the time.

I'll just feel fucking depressed for no reason (maybe there is a reason?).

What Dino said makes sense I guess, doesn't always work though.

 

[Engert]

You need to jerk off a lot ... In people's faces and you also want to sound professional when you're having an argument.
For example, you want to say "I respectfully disagree but go fuck yourself".

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You also wanna hang out naked in your house with a tie on and drink a hot cup of coffe and watch your neighbors from the glass window when you wake up in the morning.

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And also tell it like it is and never become a politically correct nerd otherwise you'll turn into a pussy.
For example if some wierd lady tells you how cute her 2 year old son is, you can tell her "that kid has a big fucking head!" You can also follow up with a more practical question "hey lady, where do u find hats for a kid with a head that big?"
Tell her the truth and be bold and if she doesn't like it you can tell her that you respectfully disagree ....