Okay I decided to skip tomorrow and I just updated and now it works. Thank you so much. I thought I had to use my screwdriver to get my sd card out but there was QR code download for The Universal updater thing. Both versions of Harvest Moon worksTry turning off card read DMA and/or asynch card read in the per-game settings (opened by pressing Y in the ROM menu).
EDIT: Both ROMs boot on my side. Make sure you've updated to v22.0.0, and that your ROMs aren't corrupt.