Do your parents ever talk to you about sex?

[amptor]

My g/f and I were talking about the ramifications of the internet and sexual curiosity. When I was a kid porn was really hard to come by...scoring some Playboys and Penthouses were a kids dream come true...shit Penthouse Stories which was all text was still something to hope for...these days Google is a 10 year olds best friend...which is kind of interesting to see who the next generation of adults will pan out?

As for me...no Mom and Dad never had any talks with me. I learned most of my stuff from the street...I actually learned about the human reproductive system from a book...I got no idea how old I was...late bloomer or a young criminal cause I remember doing a B&E on some rich dude and in his library I grabbed some sex books and scored his Playboy collection. The sex book about sperm was all cartoony which was funny to think some dude had it but it answered all my questions....and then having the Playboys only helped kill any questions a 10 year old might have. When I hit 12 and that first girl was ready I was locked, stocked, and ready to roll.

I'd have much rather had that book then a sit down with my dad any day.

Yeah I've been thinking about that too. I've met plenty of UK kids on games who frequent porn that are only 10 years old. I can't say that is a good thing by any means. I had a hard time finding magazines even throughout high school but bbses had some porn. I managed to find that stuff by maybe 14 or 15, I guess that is an ok age though. I mean, people were having kids in the dark ages at around 13 years old so I mean... compared to porn..it's still nudity when you're doing the deed anyways and plus back then their entertainment was really limited, I wouldn't be surprised if there was a lot more group sex and shit like that, since today still sex is one of the marvels of man kind.

Well my dad had talks with me when I got a lot older and I didn't understand why. It makes things worse at that age though because then you don't want to follow the stuff. I've done enough dangerous shit with women but never had any kids thankfully..since I always get with the wrong one and women are out there to take you for your money these days no matter what race, age, or economic status you are.

But man... all I can really say about sex now is make sure it is with the right type of girl because otherwise you'll be sorry. Best way to go is either wait until you know the girl real well like a few weeks at the least or if you need it right away, let it be a one time thing then separate and don't communicate any more. Otherwise you are just asking for a world of pain and misery. Trust me, diseases and pregnancy are good things to worry about but there is a bigger picture too. Your brain can get fucked over by the wrong person.

 

[cubin']

My g/f and I were talking about the ramifications of the internet and sexual curiosity. When I was a kid porn was really hard to come by...scoring some Playboys and Penthouses were a kids dream come true...shit Penthouse Stories which was all text was still something to hope for...these days Google is a 10 year olds best friend...which is kind of interesting to see who the next generation of adults will pan out?

As for me...no Mom and Dad never had any talks with me. I learned most of my stuff from the street...I actually learned about the human reproductive system from a book...I got no idea how old I was...late bloomer or a young criminal cause I remember doing a B&E on some rich dude and in his library I grabbed some sex books and scored his Playboy collection. The sex book about sperm was all cartoony which was funny to think some dude had it but it answered all my questions....and then having the Playboys only helped kill any questions a 10 year old might have. When I hit 12 and that first girl was ready I was locked, stocked, and ready to roll.

I'd have much rather had that book then a sit down with my dad any day.



..since I always get with the wrong one and women are out there to take you for your money these days no matter what race, age, or economic status you are.

Nuh I don't reckon. I have no money and I've had a few girls like me very much. I'm no pimp but I doubt that all woman are after the $$$ some just want a root or someone to talk to.

 

[ozzyzak]

I've noticed there are a lot of cynical people on here. About relationships in particular. I just got dumped out of nowhere a few weeks back by my best friend. We were together about 2 years. Sure I'm bitter, but I haven't given up hope as it seems many already have.

 

[Mewgia]

They recently gave me "the talk" even though I'd known about it for like 4 years >_>

 

[Samutz]

Nope. When I was in 7th grade, the school sent out forms in the mail to our parents for them to sign if they wanted us to participate in the Sex Ed class they were offering. I figured that they figured they wouldn't have to have "the talk" with me if I took the class.
Before that, I knew a little about sex, and knew it could get a girl pregnant, but I hadn't known about the details.

 

[JPH]

Actually my parents did talk about sex, but only the consequences. Like for instance, in their case, I was it.


I hope that was a joke?

Let's just say I had bad influences as a child (well, younger child considered to most of you guys) and was learning about it and looking at pr0n around when I was 8 (via the Internet)...

Unfortunately, I had to learn and see that stuff when I was younger.
Maybe all little kids should have a definition of what it is - I've seen a pregnant 11 year old before!

I always wondered what was gonna happen when kids started growing up with the internet. I look at it this way, when I was 8 it was 1992. Porn was definitely not easy to come up on and I don't even think we had 56k at that point.

You were 8 in 2001, that blows me away.

Obviously porn much easier to find at that point, though to be honest I have to ask. Did you go in search of that or did it just pop up? Cuz I didn't even know what porn was when I was 8.

Nope, not a pop-up. I was shown by a friend what it was.

My friend came over when we first got AOL and started looking up porn (and he must of been 10 or so at the time - his older brother must have shown him)

My knowledge about sex and shit continually increased over the years.

Oh, and this one time - my brother got caught at school on the computer searching Google for "Lindsay Lohan Nipple Slip" (we were at a Christian school too, then!).

 

[jaxxster]

Nuh I don't reckon. I have no money and I've had a few girls like me very much. I'm no pimp but I doubt that all woman are after the $$$ some just want a root or someone to talk to.

Women are like condoms man...they're either on your dick or in your wallet.

 

[RayorDragonFall]

Nuh I don't reckon. I have no money and I've had a few girls like me very much. I'm no pimp but I doubt that all woman are after the $$$ some just want a root or someone to talk to.


Women are like condoms man...they're either on your dick or in your wallet.

I'm guessing you don't have a girlfriend?

 

[Mangofett]

Nope, and I doubt they ever will. Thats just how my parents are it seems.

 

[WeaponXxX]

I had a hard time finding magazines even throughout high school but bbses had some porn. I managed to find that stuff by maybe 14 or 15, I guess that is an ok age though.

I remember those days...I think I was 14 myself...had like a 30 pack of floppies with porn from the bbses...good times...sadly I didn't have a computer at the time so I often looked at my porn on the school computers.

As for the talk...
My dad often asked me if I got my "whistle wet".... then one day... at 12 I had the chance with my g/f....too bad I wussed out...I mean shit I didn't even hit puberty till at least 17..... but at the time I was 12...we are naked...she is like "you can if you want"....I'm all like "nah we can just lie together"....later that evening I go home....my dad is playing poker or doing something with his friends...and asks in front of all his friends if I "got my whistle wet yet"....frustrated and embarrassed...the very next day I roll out and have some awkward first time goodness then run home stick my finger in my dads face and say, "YES my whistle has been WET". Sadly I didn't realize I had been doing it wrong till I hit 15...guess a real father and son talk might have helped after all...then again from what I hear there are plenty of 30 year olds still doing in wrong LOL

 

[square]

Yes, my parents and I talk about sex, and I talk about sex with my daughter, can't be too prepared.

 

[jaxxster]

Nuh I don't reckon. I have no money and I've had a few girls like me very much. I'm no pimp but I doubt that all woman are after the $$$ some just want a root or someone to talk to.


Women are like condoms man...they're either on your dick or in your wallet.

I'm guessing you don't have a girlfriend?

nah not at the moment, i recently came out of a 19 month relationship. It was a joke man.

 

[amptor]

I had a hard time finding magazines even throughout high school but bbses had some porn. I managed to find that stuff by maybe 14 or 15, I guess that is an ok age though.

I remember those days...I think I was 14 myself...had like a 30 pack of floppies with porn from the bbses...good times...sadly I didn't have a computer at the time so I often looked at my porn on the school computers.

As for the talk...
My dad often asked me if I got my "whistle wet".... then one day... at 12 I had the chance with my g/f....too bad I wussed out...I mean shit I didn't even hit puberty till at least 17..... but at the time I was 12...we are naked...she is like "you can if you want"....I'm all like "nah we can just lie together"....later that evening I go home....my dad is playing poker or doing something with his friends...and asks in front of all his friends if I "got my whistle wet yet"....frustrated and embarrassed...the very next day I roll out and have some awkward first time goodness then run home stick my finger in my dads face and say, "YES my whistle has been WET". Sadly I didn't realize I had been doing it wrong till I hit 15...guess a real father and son talk might have helped after all...then again from what I hear there are plenty of 30 year olds still doing in wrong LOL

Ya dude I think there was one floppy, I stored the rest on my PC until my brother came to stay for a while when his motorcycle broke down. So I cleaned out the drive and then later wanted to double check and found his porn stash on there and deleted that too. Also found him and his g/f looking at some nerdy ass star trek porn and was shocked, and ran out. Then my brother started treating me like a little kid after that. I was shocked because I saw a naked girl man, and I thought it was MY *.gif set that he was looking at and that I'd get in trouble. Man that was shitty, I would've had more fun with my bro if that incident didn't happen, he made me pissed off at him for years beyond that.. family sucks! glad I don't have kids lol. Anyway I didn't get those talks and I overheard my dad talking to a friend of his about how he felt it wasn't really that necessary. My dad is inconsistent, he changed his mind way later on and that was a bad idea. Pretty much whenever it comes up, that means I am with the wrong woman to begin with. I dunno why he likes the last one more than the one prior..they both are the SAME. heh. well I remember the first chick I ever got with, I felt so happy with her and could still smell her on my fingers, it made me feel so good about life. Too bad the girl didn't feel the same and wanted to just treat every guy like shit though. I think women are a waste of time, I'm going to go buy some books.

 

[Sinkhead]

No, my parents haven't. And I don't want them to.

- Sam

 

[CrystalSweet]

no,no,no,no,no.
and i dont think they ever will.
i learnt about it from my friends.
and i it was in some books i read :S
and i was doing a french project at a guys house today
with 4 other guys
and they started talking about jacking off
awwkkkkwarrdd

im 14, btw

 

[Tanas]

I think that parents who do are clueless.

 

[lagman]

They did, when I was like 8, it certainly was weird, but I'm glad they did it, that kind of information never hurts.
Actually, it felt weirder when they did it again some years later -5 or 6-

I'm not sure why.

Anyways:

 

[smallkidd]

i had the talk when i was young

 

[enigmaindex]

My dad tried talking to me about sex at the age 13-14. As soon as he said "penis" he couldn't stop laughing. Me and my dad are extremely immature. I then said "Dad don't worry about it, my friends and I know alot anyways". From that day on we still spill the dirty joke or two. And now im 16 and we still LOL at dirty jokes and i only get occasional warning "Don't get any chicks pregnant" when i go out to a party. The topic "sex" is still pretty relaxed with me and my dad, ultimately it comes down to trust and the few dirty jokes or two.

 

[hanman]

a book (i forget the name) showed up on my bed one day. it was written like a guy's diary; in fact, i think it really was one. pretty neat, actually. was quite humorous and much more "racy" than i thought a book my parents got me would be. i never did find out exactly who put the book there, or when. my parents never mentioned it since.