This might be more of a rant, but hear me out: Me and my sister were having a little discussion/fight on why i couldn't borrow money from her, she's currently employed as a waitress, earning tips and whatnot, this will fit into the discussion. I had lend her money a couple of times and it took her six months (she was lazy, trust me, she was using the money she earned on food, etc instead of paying me back). So i thought to myself, if i were to buy a new console, maybe i can lend some money form her? I asked her and she said no since I had enough money. Okay true that, but i want to sustain the damage to my bank, so i could work it back and pay her back on my next paycheck. She still said no. So, this time (we had many fights like this) i wanted to ask her why. She said it was pointless and im like hmmm, why? So she ended up pissed at me for no reason. Figures. I don't get why not? Put yourself in my shoes, IF you lent someone money because of good curiosity,etc, in my case she was buying misc, they might return a favor or not of some sorts? In my case i had lent her money in which she could freely spend and i get nothing in return, no favors, nothing. I had clearly stated this reason but she called me stupid as i was not getting to the point. At this point i had already stated my point but she thinks she still won?! Im the kind of person that does lend money to people, and waiting for them to pay back, but if IM not able to do the same, then maybe its not worth lending? Have anyone experienced a kerfuffle like this? Thanks for hearing me out.