Bammer, you have no idea what you're getting yourself into.

[bnwchbammer]

Hung out with math class girl today.
So.
We went to Gameworks and beat Time Crisis II.
Just kinda for something to do.
It closes at 9, so we left then.
Went to grab a bite to eat.
We talked about stuff.
Decided talking about stuff in McDonalds was relatively unromantic so we hopped in the car and drove around.
Found a park to chill at.
(In the car, it's cold as... well... it's cold out there)
So my past blogs mentioned her being mad at me or something.
It was apparently my fault, but not terribly.
Anyway, we were talking about stuff.
I've made it apparent that I want to go out with her.
She keeps trying to convince me I don't want to.
(To be absolutely honest, I'm not sure how well we're gonna work out, but I want to make us work)
So anyway after talking for a while in the car we kinda stop talking.
Whether or not I had convinced her I still wanted to go out with her I decided to kiss her neck.
And she is insanely sensitive.
To make a short story shorter I ended up kissing her.
Then a park district vehicle pulled up and shined its lights on us.
It was quite hilarious.
So I think we're going out...
Though not sure.
It'll be interesting.
She seems needy, though to be honest I'm not sure if that's a bad thing.
Not to be heartless either, but I could break up with her if she becomes too much to handle.
Though those aren't the thoughts I want to have.
The thoughts I want are:
I'm gonna make this work.
We'll see how this shiznit goes.
Not to be selfish, but my well being and happiness comes before anyone else's at this point.
Regardless of my negative thoughts, I'm extremely happy right now.
Perhaps I have no idea what I'm getting myself into, but hey, it's gonna be an interesting adventure for sure.
I'll keep you posted I guess.
Whether or not you care.
So yup.
Peace!

 

[Theraima]

So its going well enough with the math girl? Glad to hear that mate

What did you do to make her angry by the way?

 

[bnwchbammer]

Kept saying I don't know.
A pet peeve of hers.
I said I'd try to stop.
Only problem is it's become so much of a thing where I really don't have an opinion on things.
Though I guess it's an easy enough problem to try to deal with.

 

[Raiser]

A lot of girls don't like to make decisions on their own and prefer their man to do it.
That's why your indecisiveness may be a 'turn off' to her.

Just be confident in the decisions you make. If she leaves something up to you, it's because she doesn't trust her own decisions and believes that you can make the right one.

Glad to hear this though, sounds like a step forward.
Good job, and good luck!

 

[monkat]

girls don't like to make decisions on their own and prefer their man to do it.

.....I...don't even know how to respond to how stupid that sounds.

QUOTE(Raiser @ Jan 4 2011, 12:38 AM) Just be confident in the decisions you make.

Wait, you mean this 'raiser' kid can actually say something not entirely stupid?

 

[bnwchbammer]

girls don't like to make decisions on their own and prefer their man to do it.

.....I...don't even know how to respond to how stupid that sounds.

QUOTE(Raiser @ Jan 4 2011, 12:38 AM) Just be confident in the decisions you make.

Wait, you mean this 'raiser' kid can actually say something not entirely stupid?

Come now, monkat, Raiser gave some good advice there.

 

[monkat]

Come now, monkat, Raiser gave some good advice there.

The idea that women don't want to think for themselves is a good one? Pah

 

[431unknown]

Come now, monkat, Raiser gave some good advice there.

The idea that women don't want to think for themselves is a good one? Pah

Some don't and some don't but only about certain things. How many girlfriends have you had monkat since you seem to know all about women.

 

[monkat]

Come now, monkat, Raiser gave some good advice there.

The idea that women don't want to think for themselves is a good one? Pah

Some don't and some don't but only about certain things. How many girlfriends have you had monkat since yo seem to know all about women.

I guess it kinda depends on how you define girlfriend...

Maybe fuckbuddy for quite a few of em

Regardless, I've been around the block a few times. Also I've seen quite a few shoops in my day.

I've said it once and I'll say it again - there is nothing confusing about women. Why? Because they're the same as men.

 

[431unknown]

No they are not. And a fuck buddy do not equal a girlfriend.

While my wife says she is the boss. She still has to ask my opinion on shit. It's a 50 - 50 relationship not because I said she has too ask me but because she feels the need to ask me. It's all about give and take. Some like to give more and others like to take more.

Chicks must dig yer nipples if you've had a lot of fuck buddies. Lol.

 

[monkat]

No they are not. And a fuck buddy do not equal a girlfriend.

While my wife says she is the boss. She still has to ask my opinion on shit. It's a 50 - 50 relationship not because I said she has too ask me but because she feels the need to ask me. It's all about give and take. Some like to give more and others like to take more.

Chicks must dig yer nipples if you've had a lot of fuck buddies. Lol.

1. Yeah, I wasn't implying that fuckbuddy = girlfriend...more that both apply for understanding how women tick.

2. A 50/50 relationship completely supports my argument, rather than yours...

3. If you feel that all women feel like they need approval from men for their decisions, then your wife may have an anxiety disorder and you're applying her traits to every woman. That, or you're just some sexist jackass...

4. Chicks dig the same thing we dig, mate.

 

[431unknown]

Lol what are you studying psychology?

 

[monkat]

(responding seriously to a sarcastic comment)

I'm not studying psych professionally, but I have taken courses, and it is a deep interest of mine.

 

[431unknown]

(responding seriously to a sarcastic comment)

I'm not studying psych professionally, but I have taken courses, and it is a deep interest of mine.

Seriously, how can you be so sure I was being sarcastic?

You have a lot left to learn in life my friend and it's not all found in books or in a classroom.

 

[monkat]

You have a lot left to learn in life my friend and it's not all found in books or in a classroom.

No...shit? Everyone does.

Spewing generic clichés doesn't make you sound smart or accomplished, nor does it make me feel any sort of inferiority, so get over it.

 

[431unknown]

You have a lot left to learn in life my friend and it's not all found in books or in a classroom.

No...shit? Everyone does.

Spewing generic clichés doesn't make you sound smart or accomplished, nor does it make me feel any sort of inferiority, so get over it.

Oh I seem to have struck the core of monkat! Jerk post unlike how many of yours? That's a lot of what you post isn't it?

I don't consider myself smart or accomplished but you certainly like to make yourself out to be.

Humanity has become nothing but generic when it's learned from books and taught in every classrom and not lived anymore.

 

[monkat]

Oh I seem to have struck the core of monkat! Jerk post unlike how many of yours? That's a lot of what yon post isn't it?

You didn't strike a cord, really, your post was just ... for lack of a better word, stupid.

Oh, core. Well, refer to what's below for that.

Yeah, I suppose a lot of my posts come off as jerkish

... just usually, they have a meaningful purpose!

 

[431unknown]

See there you go again "it's just stupid". I see you post decent things about music and stuff but when it come to any other matters of humanity I see you talk bitching about work and life don't you have any positives in either.

If all you want to do is insult me and my mind they please feel free to pm me. I don't want to clutter bammers blog any longer.

 

[431unknown]

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[431unknown]

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