Dude, you think your the only person on here with other things to do?
According to you, i should award Ozmodchips, yourself, Ronnieboy, Piepants all 2-1 FW, because, you might have all been available to play at a certain time. Ozmodchips is also very busy, and while you gave him 2 nights, at specific times you'd be available, you dictated those times that you played then or nothing.
2cb took over from ozmod, so at this rate, every player last week, who didn't play a match, should be rewarded, because i guarantee you everyone else is also busy, and had times they could play, but didn't play, for one reason or another.
You told Bray you could only play weekends, late. Sunday night came, and after having changed your late match to a different night, and time, you played Bray. Bray was close to forfeiting, or close to claiming a forfeit over you. What happens if sunday night came, and he all of a sudden had to go out, for whatever reason? He was available every other weeknight, and all weekend. Should he have also been punished, if he hadn't turned up to the 10pm timeslot, which was on the last night of the week?
Scenario 1: Next week, i tell Marty and yourself, i can ONLY play at 12pm Thursday, Marty says fine, you say you can't, because your working, at uni, commitments etc. So my game with marty is played, but seeing as you can't make my time, why should i lose 0-3? According to your idea, i should gain a 2-1 win, because i'll make myself available at a time i dictated, and thats all, and if you didn't make the time, then your to blame.
But, in my way of thinking, i am the one being unreasonable, by only giving you a specific time, with no leeway given at all. So, in that instance, you should gain a 2-1 FW, not me. It works both ways.
Players stating they can only play, late at night, on the last night of the weekly scheduled match, is slightly unreasonable. Everyone here works, goes to uni, school, has husbands/wives/gfs/bfs and other commitments. The last day of the week makes someone not turning up to that match seemingly at fault, but have you thought that maybe their best available times were other days of the week? Ozmodchips didn't show sunday, what if his best nights were monday, tuesday, did you try and work around anything?
If i said to people, tough, turn up Sunday 11pm, if you don't, not my fault, and they lose, i would be the person being unreasonable. I wouldn't do that, if i can't play during a week because i can't work out a better neutral time, i'd give them the FW.
My sister got told by you, you could only play sat LATE or sun LATE. She had little to no choice bar LATE wednesday but those according to you. She played you earlier before heading out, had she not played you tonight, she wouldn't have been able to play you LATE tomorrow coz she'll be out, but she was able to every other night of the week. So, again, you would have claimed the forfeit win, despite the fact, that she's the one who's gone out of her way to make your time.
The game is supposed to be about fun, but also, about people trying to find a good neutral way of playing one another. It's one thing to say these are most likely your best free times, its another to tell someone a few times, late times at that, and offer no leeway, basically forcing them to turn up, or forfeit.
"I don't see how it should be 0-3 FL for making an effort through my busy life."
Then i'll make your life a little less busy. If it's so busy that this is such an effort, thats fine, you dont have to worry about the league then. I don't think telling someone 2 times late, is making an effort. I think the person having to work around their own schedule to make those times, is the one making the effort.