So for about 2 years i've been suggesting to my wife that she should compromise and stay up late on occasion so when I get out of work we can have alone time. Hasn't happened. Not even once. Tonight she decided to go out with friends for a late night coming in a 2am. I think this is a smack in the face and I am torn. Makes it seem like if she wants to do something she will take the plunge - so its obvious to conclude she doesn't want to stay up with me for alone time. I'm running on like 5 hours of sleep over past 48 hours so I'm probably nuts but still I think I got a point.