Incel means "involuntary celibate," however, the term has a lot more weight to it than just not having sex. Let me explain. In extremely simple terms, it just means that women don't want to fuck you and you feel betrayed by society because of it. If you don't have sex, that's honestly fine. A lot of people who have lost their virginity will be the first to tell you it's seriously not worth dedicating your life to. Incels as "people" are a movement of extremely misogynistic, anti-social shut-ins who loathe society as a whole because they feel like the world is cheating them out of the one thing they fixate upon: a sexual relationship. So basically, if you aren't a morbidly depressed misanthrope who blames his virginity like it's anything to be ashamed of, you are not an incel relative to the movement. The mere fact you have to even ask if you're an incel shows you are self aware, which means, you are not an incel by default. Don't worry about sex or any dumb shit like that. You'll find a mutual love and respect in a genuine relationship sooner or later, and believe me when I say this, that shit's way more preferable and wholesome than just blowing your load.