When I was a lad, my mates used to get all the women... They were popping their cherries (losing virginity)... I used to tell myself I am "not into that". But the reality was my pathetic ass couldn`t approach women. So, to my "mates", I wasn`t bothered. But secretly so jealous I was praying their c*cks would fall off...
It's hard to be an involuntary celibate when one's actions, which are voluntary, are what are driving women away. I always found that really ironic.
But no, it doesn't sound like you fall under the same umbrella that the "incel movement" typically attracts. As long as you respect women and don't resent them for not having sex with you, you're doing alright in that regard
(And yes, a lot of incels end up being Alt Right. That's not a coincidence)
That proverb suggests the very creepy situation that good looking women are okay to be stalked by everyone. And .. I watch a few mgtow channels from time to time but after the clickbait title they usually complain about women hundreds of miles away from themselves.
I think that as a movement, "incel" could be better defined as "we treat women horribly because we see them as objects and tend to show this when attempting to attract a potential partner and always fail because of this, but rather than acknowledging that we're the problem we blame women and men who are more conventionally attractive than us"