Ya that's the same kernel I'm using wasn't sure if there was a better one and I wasn't sure if linking other websites was ok.
http://www.usar4.com/r4isdhc-3ds-r4i-sdhc-dual-core-2014-flashcart-for-2ds3ds-xl3dsdsids-lite-p-5.html
Also do you know which cheat database to use and how to install it
I am a long time browser never really spoke in forums but i loged in to say that I also cannot connect to the cheat forums anymore so i dont think they are 100% unless your still configuring them as you linked in that link post. Not sure what would cause a large group of people not see it.