Comments on Profile Post by AmandaRose

  1. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Oh and dear boy yep you know who you are. I hope one day you discover just how much your comment hurt me.
    Sep 4, 2018
  2. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    You didn't even have the balls to say it in private you just had to post for all the world to see.
    Sep 4, 2018
  3. Kingy_
    Kingy_
    It's just a post on the internet.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  4. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Very true but he still made me cry.
    Sep 4, 2018
  5. smileyhead
    smileyhead
    What did I miss?
    Sep 4, 2018
  6. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    @smileyhead just a very stupid person on here who I was actually dumb enough to think they were my friend.
    Sep 4, 2018
  7. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    Sep 4, 2018
  8. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Im sorry that you felt the need to comment without knowing what the actual situation was.
    Sep 4, 2018
  9. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    When you get offended from what a person says online and make it publically know it is a sign that you have to get out more
    Sep 4, 2018
  10. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    No its a sign that I am human. And they were actually the one who got offended then posted nasty stuff about me. And anyway we have both apologised to each other so its done and over.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  11. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    I know what you are talking about, and seriously, I have heard worse insults.

    Also, microaggresions are my favorite words
    Sep 4, 2018
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  12. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Ha you didn't see the PMs that i was sent lol. But like i said all is good now.
    Sep 4, 2018
  13. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    I was talking about something else that had offense in it's nature, and involved you
    Sep 4, 2018
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  14. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    Apart from the Nocto thing
    Sep 4, 2018
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  15. smileyhead
    smileyhead
    @AmandaRose Just a tip for the future: if someone bullies you, don't respond to them.
    Don't feed the trolls. If you do, they'll come back for more. If you don't, they'll starve.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  16. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    It's sorted EthanAddict thats all that matters lol no need to name and shame.
    Sep 4, 2018
  17. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    It is that I saw something and it was completely hypocritical
    Sep 4, 2018
  18. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    Doesn't have to do with Nocto
    Sep 4, 2018
  19. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Ok please explain EthanAddict
    Sep 4, 2018
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    Sep 4, 2018
  21. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    Yet, when someone expects you to be "stereotypical"(which wasn't his point) you get offended
    "And know what I am sorry I dont fall into line and act the way the predominantly male community on here expects a woman to act not all woman are the same as all men are not the same."
    Sep 4, 2018
  22. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Ok so how was that hypocritical on my part when i pulled someone up for using an offensive word. Not having a go at you genuinely interested in case i did something wrong
    Sep 4, 2018
  23. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    No, you made it sound as if he shouldn't use the word because you deem it inappropriate and say so
    Sep 4, 2018
  24. Seriel
    Seriel
    I don't have a clue about what happened here and I don't particularly care but the attitude of "Its just words on the internet, just dont read them lolol" (Not a direct quote, just a generalization of an attitude) is quite honestly stupid.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  25. Seriel
    Seriel
    While it's true that something on the internet shouldn't be taken so seriously that it affects your personal life, you don't know everyone and their problems and its still a shitty excuse to say toxic stuff on the web.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  26. Seriel
    Seriel
    I'm not expecting you to pander to everything you're told not to say, but if you offend someone at least apologize and move on, continuing to be aggressive while using "Its just the internet" as an excuse is disgusting.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  27. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Look i am sorry that I expressed my feelings and yes sometimes im not perfect and yes sometimes I forget this site is international and i forget that words that are illegal to use in my country are not illegal to use elsewhere I never claimed to be perfect.
    Sep 4, 2018
  28. Seriel
    Seriel
    And if I can take a direct quote this time, "seriously, I have heard worse insults." is another stupid justification that serves no real purpose, you're essentially diminishing the other persons issues because you've been through worse. What the fuck kind of logic is that.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  29. Seriel
    Seriel
    Oh, oh and I've got one more! I've been throwing this link around lately, whoever was talking about free speech you might wanna give this a read: https://xkcd.com/1357/
    Sep 4, 2018
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  30. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    I am not telling that you should use offensive words
    But the attitude "u offended me u r bigot" that the Internet is filled with is, quite frankly, stupid too
    If you don't like what people say on the Internet, don't go on the Internet, or just learn to live with different opinions? idk
    Sep 4, 2018
  31. Seriel
    Seriel
    Different opinions are fine, offending people and failing to realize you just made a mistake is not. You are essentially justifying what is basically offensive language to someone, just because you think they should just not use the internet. How about humans learn to respect one another and then this won't be a problem?
    Sep 4, 2018
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  32. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    Thank you Seriel
    Sep 4, 2018
  33. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    Choosing to use offensive words is opinion too
    And I never tried to insult or justify anyone for offending anyone. I just find complaining about words like "fag" stupid, I mean, he didn't insult you

    I get your point, but still, if someone doesn't like offensive language, instead of making it a topic, just don't care altogether?
    Sep 4, 2018
  34. Seriel
    Seriel
    Humans are not designed to simply turn off their ability to care, certain words hurt us harder than we expect and we feel the need to lash out because of it. I'm not saying its bad to call someone that word, I just think if you are then told that person found it offensive, you should at the very least apologize, since what is a joke to you may well offend someone else.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  35. Seriel
    Seriel
    We all make mistakes and bad decisions, its how we bounce back from them which determines who we are.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  36. Seriel
    Seriel
    Regarding "he didn't insult you", he probably didn't intend to but sometimes words you don't expect to have an impact do, and its up to you to be mature enough to realize that afterwards and not dismiss it as someone getting annoyed at everything, since not everyone finds the same things funny or offensive, even within the same cultures.
    Sep 4, 2018
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  37. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    I understand, but it all comes down to the fact that she commented on the word fag even though "a respected trangender member posted above". And I can see the part where she got offended from his word, but she could just inform a mod and let him handle the issue, or just not care about his use of the word altogether. It is not your job to enforce the rules
    Sep 4, 2018
  38. AmandaRose
    AmandaRose
    EthanAddict the respected transgender member who posted above comment was made because i was the one that posted above again it was part of the humour in my post.
    Sep 4, 2018
  39. EthanAddict
    EthanAddict
    Hence why I included in quotation marks. I know you used sarcastically
    Sep 4, 2018
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