1. AkiraKurusu
    AkiraKurusu
    1. Dad moving money from their savings to his. He never had much under his own name, in case of his workplace getting sued and him being held reliable or some such, so he always put everything under Mum's name to minimise risk. However, since he left, he wanted something under his own name - however, he never did discuss it with her beforehand. He did realise it was a mistake, but too late by then.
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    Dec 27, 2020
  2. AkiraKurusu
    AkiraKurusu
    2. He took some friends, including two single women around his age, out onto the family's boat. Mum did know about this in advance, but she didn't feel comfortable with the "two single women" part, since the marriage is still in place and all. Dad knew this, but still had the women, since he doesn't have many friends.
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    Dec 27, 2020
  3. AkiraKurusu
    AkiraKurusu
    And as of last night, 3. he took a single woman and her family out to dinner, as I understand it. Mum checked the card transactions, so she knew, and she hoped he would bring it up himself when he came here (after going kayaking). He didn't, since he didn't want to hurt her feelings, but welp. She had to bring it up, so...
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    Dec 27, 2020
  4. AkiraKurusu
    AkiraKurusu
    Dad's always treated my bro and me nicely - we definitely enjoyed Christmas Day together - but...the above's unacceptable. Completely wrong.
    I had to get this out somewhere, so here it is. Late 2020 was not exactly a good time for Mum. She's seeing a psychologist, and she's still being nice to him - not shutting him out completely - but...sigh.
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    Dec 27, 2020
  5. FAST6191
    FAST6191
    If it is all over but for the paperwork then I don't know that I would rank it as unacceptable.
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    Dec 27, 2020
  6. AkiraKurusu
    AkiraKurusu
    It's not a divorce, yet - Dad's never been the talkative type, and what friends he used to have he has lost over the years. Might be a divorce someday, but right now it's quite hard on both of them I'd wager.
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    Dec 27, 2020
  7. HarvHouHacker
    HarvHouHacker
    I'm sorry to hear that! I will pray for you.
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    Jan 20, 2021