okay, going to try to not be a total dummy, im a little lost with all the massize posts. but ive double checked it all and I have all of that updated except from the luma updater 2.5. i downloaded the zip folder and extracted it. im just unsure what files need to go where if that makes sense
Just a few weeks ago I started diving into this. More than likely I am about as lost as you are. However, I still remember struggling with the basics.If I am writing something incorrect, I am sure someone will correct me.
When going online, check if under System Settings > Internet Settings > SpotPass > Sending of Information has been disabled. Additionally, check if in the orange Friend List icon on the Home screen under Notification Settings the option to Show Friends What I Am Playing has been disabled.
If your 3DS already has custom firmware (CFW), you can check
this page to update boot9strap (which is the thing the entire CFW runs on, if I understand correctly).
With CFW your 3DS most likely also has a Luma icon on the Home screen. It's the green/blue, cute alien standing on a green leaf Open that app, and you will see what version of Lume Updater is installed on your system. If that version is the same as the
latest release of LumaUpdater, you're good on that front.
EDIT: If LumaUpdater has a new version, it will say so when starting Luma, I believe. Sorry, that was your question. When you have the latest LumaUpdater, you can close and restart--or maybe first reboot the 3DS?--and then open Luma again. With the latest LumaUpdater, it will now check if Luma itself is on the latest version.
If those boot9strap and Luma are up to date, you should be able to then go into System Settings and see on the top screen that you have a CFW version (starts with "sys" whereas official firmware would read "ver"). With B9S and Luma ready, in System Settings > Other Settings you can click to the right until you find System Update. An up-to-date B9S and Luma will work together to install the newest version of CFW.
Hopefully that makes sense, and I have not made any mistakes there. The experts will let me know if I have.