Do you like your life situation?

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Yeah, that makes my heart warm and fuzzy. But that's also a big part of the bad feeling about my life situation. To be able to take things further with her, I'll have to get out of my current life situation and that's why I'm not happy with it :)
I need a new job, and a new place to live, and a lot of stuff to be able to deal with immigrations. Then it's a waiting game, up to 2 years, before you get a decision if you get residency or not. So it's a crappy feeling,.

Ok,that is of course understandable.:)
You can try instead of "waiting" to turn this into a state of "Looking forward to the coming".
If I understand you correct,all is set to "leave" your current Life and go ahead to the next "Step".Great.:yay:
Why torture yourself with waiting, if it is not changeable to shorten the time ? :)
In this times we live you have enough communication "options" to stay in touch.
Use and try not to waste too much time and energy on your current job.It is as it is at the moment.:)
Try to accept it and go on please,you have the prospect of something else.Something that many people are denied ....

Good Luck.:)
 
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I'm not particularly proud of where my life is right now or what I think I accomplished with my time, but I know it could be worse. I've been unemployed for the last three months as I'm battling depression, and my family is trying to help me. I've actually improved over the last two weeks, thanks to therapy and medication, and I've been meaning to try and change old habits as I strive to develop a healthier lifestyle.

Not at my best moment, but I'm happy I'm not at my worst either, as I've been there and I know how it feels like. To anyone is this thread who is able to get psychological assistance, be it therapy, meds, or a combination of both (this is something a professional will be able to tell you, not you), I'll advise you to go for it. Makes a world of difference.
 
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Little update ; just out of the hospital. I kinda told my ex i was gonna od at my next pay friday , so she called the cops , they come while i was going to sleep(i work night shift) (shes in montreal for the week end not even present while this happen )get woken up by the cops who want to enter the appartment . I said no you need a valid reason , so they go on we beleive you may be a danger to yourself. So you let us enter or we use the force . So the force it is i said . After a good brawl i give up once they call a third guy and anyway i was just doing that for my own amusment . They put the coffs and bring me in the car while waiting for an ambulance to take me to the hospital where i wasted my last day off for nothing but blabla that got nowhere . They released me at the end of the day .i come back to sleep ,. I wake up pick up stuffs. My ex is back and now she tell me i have 2 months to get someplace else since evrething is at her name , app ,phone ,internet . I have a bunch of stuff idk where to go what to do , i really dont feel like working. Im at total lost right now . I dont see any objective worth of it everything is meaningless and the efforts i would have too do way to big for me .

Hello.:)

Please do not get this wrong. It maybe would help you if you would take help. According to your "Story", I think that would be a good idea.
You really seem to be on the ground. Do you have someone in your environment (relatives or friends) you can talk to ? Someone you can really tell your Story and they also listen really to you ? Maybe this will help you a little to get currently up from the "ground".

Thank you.:)
 

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I can't say I enjoy where I am in life, at least not right now. It's rough to get a job, mainly due to my mental health/anxiety, so I've taken to livestreaming games to help keep the stress of everyday life down. It kinda helps, plus I managed to make Affiliate just last year! I'm by no means popular, though; it's mainly just a way to help cope with my somewhat meager existence lol

Otherwise, I'm not really doing all that much with my life. It's constantly boring lol

Regardless, I still have some hope for the future. Not much choice but to keep on going and see where life takes me.
 

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On one hand, I have a good job and make pretty decent money, am financially independent, have my own place and own two cars and have what I think are pretty cool hobbies.

On the other hand, I am depressed with a touch of anxiety and a huge heaping of social awkwardness and introvertedness, am hopelessly single, and struggle to find motivation to actually do any of my hobbies or keep my place clean.

Do I like my life situation? Jury is still out on that one.

Edit - I'm still running with it though. Don't take that as me saying I'm not trying to take steps to get to a point where I actually do wholeheartedly like it. It's just really hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel some... most days.
 
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Hello.:)

What is so horrible in your Life ? :(
Are you terminally ill ?
Do you have physical complaints ?

Which terrible Thing(s) makes you say "I HATE my Life ?"
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not doing so well in school
school is draining
almost no time to play any games at all
its repeats every day
 
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not doing so well in school
school is draining
almost no time to play any games at all
its repeats every day
Thank you.:)

That is the Kind of Situation(s) that fortunately changes with Time.:)
At the Moment it feels like "Life sucks..."...and no Light on the Horizon.
That will pass....
You will see...:)

Just do not "poke your head in the Sand" please.
Thank you.:)
 

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Sometimes it feels like this, but gotta be happy for what I do have instead of the things I don't.
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Sometimes it feels like this, but gotta be happy for what I do have instead of the things I don't.
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My life rn being alone
It does feel like that so many times. I mean it's not a constant feeling for me but it's something that's there on and off. Like few days are good then all of a sudden there's this type of day.
All we can do is stay strong I think. As they say, even tough times don't last, they all pass with time.
 

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