There are only two genders. Change my mind.

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"Biologically" gender isn't a thing. It wasn't until recently in human history that gender = sex. Sex and gender are not the same thing, and gender originally as a word meant quite a few things, including peoples mannerisms and roles. For instance, men having a typically womens job, such as sewing, looming, cooking, etc.

Yeah, more dads staying home with the kids or no kids while mom/wives works.
 

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"Biologically" gender isn't a thing. It wasn't until recently in human history that gender = sex. Sex and gender are not the same thing, and gender originally as a word meant quite a few things, including peoples mannerisms and roles. For instance, men having a typically womens job, such as sewing, looming, cooking, etc.

My World Book 1983 Dictionary absolutely defines gender as sex (also the grouping of nouns into classes such as male, female or neuter; and one of such classes) and declares the kind/sort/class definition to be archaic. I'm not trying to say that your "until recently" comment is wrong (1983 isn't exactly very long ago in the whole of human history or the English language), but my point here is that people who believe the word to be synonymous w/ sex aren't inaccurate. It is a valid definition of the word.

I couldn't care less how one identifies and/or chooses to display that identity. I'm not homo/trans/etc.-phobic or insensitive to the issues that often causes someone who isn't cisgender. The thing is though, most of these discussions end up turning in to fights because both sides are under the impression the word CANNOT mean both things. So person "A" who looks it up in his Webster's Big Book o' Words and reads and follows the "sex" definition is usually branded an ignorant bigot/Nazi by person "B" who follows the "identifies as" definition. Person "A" also then usually brands person "B" as a lunatic... Neither brand is fair or necessarily correct, though.

The whole discussion is usually pretty pointless when discussed this way, most people can't be convinced to accept the other definition as valid. And fighting over it isn't a good plan if you actually care about and want to do something about the real issues... The problems LGBTQ people face due to bigotry and intolerance and their rights to live/present as they choose. Tackle that instead, fighting over the word "gender" isn't winning any friends on either side and only fans the flames IMO. I just can't see it as anything but a waste of energy and a blockade to fixing the real problem.
 

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"Biologically" gender isn't a thing. It wasn't until recently in human history that gender = sex. Sex and gender are not the same thing, and gender originally as a word meant quite a few things, including peoples mannerisms and roles. For instance, men having a typically womens job, such as sewing, looming, cooking, etc.

The word "woman" is derived from the words "womb" and "man". The word "womb" is in fact a biological indicator, hence the denotation.
 

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The word "woman" is derived from the words "womb" and "man". The word "womb" is in fact a biological indicator, hence the denotation.
You are so wrong lol but nice try.
Its actually a misconception that the term "woman" is etymologically connected to "womb". "Womb" is actually from the Old English word wambe meaning "stomach" (modern German retains the colloquial term "Wampe" from Middle High German for "potbelly").

The spelling of "woman" in English has progressed over the past millennium from wīfmann to wīmmann to wumman, and finally, the modern spelling woman. In Old English, wīfmann meant "female human", whereas wēr meant "male human". Mann or monn had a gender-neutral meaning of "human", corresponding to Modern English "person" or "someone"; however, subsequent to the Norman Conquest, man began to be used more in reference to "male human", and by the late 13th century had begun to eclipse usage of the older term wēr. The medial labial consonants f and m in wīfmann coalesced into the modern form "woman", while the initial element wīf, which meant "female", underwent semantic narrowing to the sense of a married woman ("wife").
 

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Technically there's only two sex's for sure that's science.

However gender is however you identify yourself so you can determine your gender however you want, it's your identity.
Like your virginity, you can actually determine what's losing your virginity and what isn't. That's my take on it anyway, as long as it doesn't harm anyone then sure but there'll always be controversy on it.

We have these kind of discussions in my psychology class. Amazing.
 
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What do you mean There are only two genders. Change my mind ? I dont understand.
Change my mind is a format some like to use when discussing a position that some consider to be ill informed or outrageous. "This is my position, I know you may no like it so make your case as to why I am wrong" being a fairly good alternative phrasing.

As for two genders then as I understand it then it has two main paths.

1) Some people use it as a shorthand for denying the need to acknowledge aspects of transgenderism/transgender individuals. This breaks down several more times as there are a lot of aspects to the debate for some people -- some simply mean it as a statement that transgender does not exist, others would say it does exist but then have other thoughts on how one should approach it.
Others still would take other paths that others find very odd and also appear to fly in the face of generally accepted biology, medicine and observed reality.

2) There are some people in the world that like to say there are basically infinite genders.

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I already went with my thoughts on the matter as a whole ( https://gbatemp.net/threads/there-are-only-two-genders-change-my-mind.502144/page-5#post-7939807 ). Though for the sake of the simplistic thing I would say there are two genders, and I don't care what your head reckons it is and whether that matches the genitals you were born with.
The people I was referring to in the latter part of 1) would typically be called social constructivists. They often say that sex and gender is a thing made up by man and thus can be anything you want it to mean, this despite clear and observable traits wherever you go in the world, however far removed different humans are from each other, regardless of whether you find some isolated tribe in the jungle or someone in a big city, whether you look at babies that can't know anything, whether you look at animals, whether you look at edge cases (damaged genitals), when you throw around hormones into people and observe the results...
It gets even more fun if you want to consider history -- old school European aristocracy had high heels as the height of fashion for men, long nails have also long been a sign that you don't have to work with your hands, some would tell me that blue and pink swapped as the colours for a given gender at one point. Yet today they are what they are with regards to being associated with a given gender.

For 2) then I quite like the following video for highlighting how ridiculous it can be


If you want to box up aspects of your personality and give it a proper noun then so be it. Why I would care to have it supplant or basically render infinite and thus unknowable the otherwise useful concept of gender I do not know.
 
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You are so wrong lol but nice try.
Its actually a misconception that the term "woman" is etymologically connected to "womb". "Womb" is actually from the Old English word wambe meaning "stomach" (modern German retains the colloquial term "Wampe" from Middle High German for "potbelly").

The spelling of "woman" in English has progressed over the past millennium from wīfmann to wīmmann to wumman, and finally, the modern spelling woman. In Old English, wīfmann meant "female human", whereas wēr meant "male human". Mann or monn had a gender-neutral meaning of "human", corresponding to Modern English "person" or "someone"; however, subsequent to the Norman Conquest, man began to be used more in reference to "male human", and by the late 13th century had begun to eclipse usage of the older term wēr. The medial labial consonants f and m in wīfmann coalesced into the modern form "woman", while the initial element wīf, which meant "female", underwent semantic narrowing to the sense of a married woman ("wife").

I was just reading up on this, I believe you have some info correct, though I am seeing the Latin origins being in the 1500's, though that is neither here nor their. That being said, the problem with Entomology, is that much of it is hard to trace, and often times, the Chinese, Egyptians, Indians, etc. that schooled the Greeks, Romans, and generally the whole back bone of modern history; never seem to have their place in the records. Either way, distinction between genders is noted far before the 13th century; early Christian texts being but one of many examples, and there are of course far older examples too.
 

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It’s pretty funny when the people that constantly make fun of “special snowflakes” for being PC and getting mad at words then turn around and get mad at them for using certain words.
 
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There's also XXY, XY female presenting (testosterone doesn't have the affect it normally does), XX male presenting (large levels of testosterone), and so on and so forth. Biology isn't as neat and clean as you'd hope. You just learn it that way because it's "close enough" for highschool level of knowledge, and that decision really needs to be addressed. Because if you want to be completely accurate, there's a lot more going on. Reality is far more interesting than you, and a lot of folks, give it credit. There's also a difference between sex and gender :P You're talking just about sex when talking about chromosomes, and you're talking about gender when you discuss how people express their sex.

And transgender is another topic altogether :P That's when the brain develops as one while the body develops as another (usually). Since we value the person rather than the body, we go with how the person is rather than how they look.
Just wanna give credit here to the only addition to this discussion worth anything. Acknowledges all sexual variations in biology, acknowledges that gender is often a social construct, and that transgender people experience a deeply rooted identity mismatch beyond their choice or control.
 

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You can not be fired for addressing someone with the wrong pronoun. And if you were, get a lawyer to get some money out of that company on your way out. :)

Leaving wrong sentiments like that stand, is what creates most of the animosity, so lets not.

Also would it hurt you to stop posting youtuber clickbait? (Peppe the Frog and gangsigns? I dont think you are helping. ;) )
 
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Technically there's only two sex's for sure that's science.

However gender is however you identify yourself so you can determine your gender however you want, it's your identity.
Like your virginity, you can actually determine what's losing your virginity and what isn't. That's my take on it anyway, as long as it doesn't harm anyone then sure but there'll always be controversy on it.

We have these kind of discussions in my psychology class. Amazing.
There’s 2 genders. There is problem with misinformation on this subject, and it’s something that won’t die either. You would have to listen to what sex researchers have to say, and not mainstream media because they’re not reliable.

Researchers would tell you, with thousands of studies, that Gender is binary and is not a social construct. 2 sexes, 2 genders. Anything else is not scientifically accurate. The 96+ genders people choose to identify as doesn’t exist.

You won’t find any scientific research that backs gender as a “social construct” if you ask people to show you. For 99% of people biological sex matches gender identity. Gender non binary, gender neutral, doesn’t exist

Environment plays a role in shaping people, but can’t override biology. If not then you can raise a transgender to not be transgender if it were environmental.

Debra Soh (she’s a sex researcher), has a good video on this topic. She even explains the intersex argument that people bring up which is not proof of anything, or the flawed study of male and female brains being the same.

Here’s her video.
 
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