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Foez,
I just read this whole thread, and i have to say, your wife is being such a horrible person. I dont think its her original personality however. The fact that she has probs realized you have nothing and not done anything about it is harsh. Its good you get to see your kids soon though, I know how much attention Autistic children need, since my 5 year old brother is Autistic. Cant you contact the court or something, about her taking your income? thats not right, since you have fuck all, no money and no income if i read this correctly. Anyway I just posted to say, I hope things get better soon, you deserve much better than the hell youve been through atm.

Don't think you are alone, because you are not. All these people posting to try to help you/cheer you up, it makes me feel there are some good people here, and the internet isnt full of horrible people.

Hope it gets better for you soon! Everything happens for a reason, but since it has been bad for so long, something good will happen!

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I don't know what I'm going to do. Fuck, I'm about to not have internet anymore. XFlak really wants me to go up and visit him, but I don't think they'll allow me in Canada because I have a DWI on my record and Canada considers it a felony.
A country doesn't prevent you from entering because you have something on your record, unless you're specifically ordered not to leave the country.
 
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I don't know what I'm going to do. Fuck, I'm about to not have internet anymore. XFlak really wants me to go up and visit him, but I don't think they'll allow me in Canada because I have a DWI on my record and Canada considers it a felony.

Sorry for the delay, my internet went out. Ugh. Well your DWI is chicken shit compared to what you're going through right now. You really should go up there. If they send you to court or some shit like that, then just tell them what's happened to you over the last few months. I'm sure they'd make an arrangement with you. And if they wouldn't; well, they're no better than your wife.
 

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They're gone now. They took almost everything they could, even down to the curtains. Fuck, they even accidentally grabbed my pillow and body pillow. The only things that they left behind was messes everywhere of things that can't be sold. They even took a framed picture of my dad's prize winning dog that he loved. They took the refrigerator, the stove, washer and dryer.

I've got nothing left to sleep on besides a few sheets and a pile of my dad's clothes.

This world could not get any crueler to me.
 

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What the fuck? And you're not even going to try to get some of it back? At least your bed and refrigerator and the picture of your dad's prize winning dog? If I were up there with you, we'd be going to the place where they took all your stuff and talking to them right now. You have a right to have his stuff since you're his immediate family. Unless you signed a waiver saying that these people could take your stuff, then you are entitled to do with it as you see fit. Or you could do something like this: (and I'm being serious) you could let me do all your moping so you can be free to do something else, like try to get your stuff back.
 

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Unfortunately, none of it is actually mine, besides my pillows. My dad's wife has all the rights to that stuff and she chose to auction it off. It is out of my hands. We already had said that there were many thigns that we did not want to leave the house and they took it all anyways with strict instructions and a list of things to take that my dad's wife wrote up.

The good news is, I at least found some dog beds up in the attic so I can sleep on that tonight.
 

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Sorry to hear that. I think it'd be cool if you asked her if you could have some of the stuff and she said yes. I know people can be cruel, but she can't be that bad by refusing to let you have a human's bed to sleep on... ugh, I've said enough...

But at least you have something to sleep on. :)
 

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None of my business but how's your house and job situation going. Did you say they was also taking the house.

I'm going through a temp agency to try to get a part time job. I don't have the time, patience, or mental capacity to do some real job searching at this point. I'm having a hard enough time trying to pull myself together to do this court shit with my wife.

The IRS will soon be taking the house and then both my sister and I will be homeless
Sorry to hear that. I think it'd be cool if you asked her if you could have some of the stuff and she said yes. I know people can be cruel, but she can't be that bad by refusing to let you have a human's bed to sleep on... ugh, I've said enough...
I've already tried it. My dad's wife hates my sister and I and she is mostly taking everything out of spite... or I assume. The bitch wont talk to me or anything at all. She just wants her life back and to forget about everything that was in the last 10 years with my dad.
 

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I've already tried it. My dad's wife hates my sister and I and she is mostly taking everything out of spite... or I assume. The bitch won't talk to me or anything at all. She just wants her life back and to forget about everything that was in the last 10 years with my dad.

Sounds like the evil stepmother in Cinderella. Pure evil. And her efforts to hurt you have been majorly successful. And so have your wife's. You should just take the kids away from her, restraining order be damned. She's taking you to court anyway, which'll give you the chance to prove why she doesn't deserve to have them. Which, considering all the things you've written on here and in your blog about this, should be a piece of cake. She needs a taste of what she's done to you. I hate how your life has become this miserable and I hope you can get your kids back at least.
 

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A country doesn't prevent you from entering because you have something on your record, unless you're specifically ordered not to leave the country.

Actually you're completely wrong there. DUI/DWI's are considered serious offenses in Canada.
Its totally up to the discretion of a border guard if they will let you pass or not.
As I recall its similar for other countries...just depends on the crime/charge.
 

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Actually you're completely wrong there. DUI/DWI's are considered serious offenses in Canada.
Its totally up to the discretion of a border guard if they will let you pass or not.
As I recall its similar for other countries...just depends on the crime/charge.
But the crime wasn't committed in Canada. I've traveled to maybe 10 countries, and never once has my record been checked.
 

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Yeah, but you also aren't DeadlyFoez. Mine will be checked and they'll likely question me fearing that I'm some terrorist.
They certainly will if you identify yourself as "DeadlyFoez" ;)

Besides, they're Canadians. What are they going to do, mispronounce "about" until you go insane? Maybe they'll make you purchase milk in bags!
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Thanks for making me laugh. Yeah, and I am EXTREMELY picky about my milk. It blows my mind to think that a whole country doesn't see whats wrong about that. LOL.

Either way, still better there than here.
 

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But the crime wasn't committed in Canada. I've traveled to maybe 10 countries, and never once has my record been checked.

Doesn't matter where it's committed. If it's on your record, it can be checked.
It isn't always checked of course, but you may be asked if you have any sort of criminal record, and if you say no and they see you're lying, they'll send you packing AND give you a hefty ban from entering Canada too.
It's a chance, always a chance. Really depends on who you end up talking to honestly.

Also I swear i'm going to go to as many stores as it takes to actually find a bag of milk, because never in my life have I actually seen one, yet I keep hearing about the damn things being so Canadian.
 

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Doesn't matter where it's committed. If it's on your record, it can be checked.
It isn't always checked of course, but you may be asked if you have any sort of criminal record, and if you say no and they see you're lying, they'll send you packing AND give you a hefty ban from entering Canada too.
It's a chance, always a chance. Really depends on who you end up talking to honestly.
I guess I look too innocent.

Also I swear i'm going to go to as many stores as it takes to actually find a bag of milk, because never in my life have I actually seen one, yet I keep hearing about the damn things being so Canadian.
XFlak told me it's a regional thing.
 

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