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  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    @BigOnYa, i'm too coward :cry:
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    No reason to be afraid. It's more cowardly to not admit that you have issues. I have issues, lots of them, but better to be honest, and open up to someone you trust, so you can work thru those issues together
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    To add there really isn't much help you can get online we gets an escape but if you really want things to get better professionals have those resources
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    Tbh I have some confidence issues
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    The internets for information life is forever
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    Confidence is something I didn't have till my mid 20's, so don't worry, it will come. Just be yourself, and if others don't like it, F em! Your true friends will like you no matter. I was a chubby kid thru school and got teased all the time. Many nights I remember sitting in bed crying thinking about being teased at school. Even made excuses to Mom trying to get out of going to school.
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    I was teased for being skinny just as bad as larger people do
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    I have few friends
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    still skinny. and at 52 yrs old I still hear shit like "eat a sandwich!"
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    Be happy with those few friends larger groups are dangerous
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    Bitch. I'll out eat most people any day. lol. I eat entire pizzas, chips, baked goodies, giant ass steaks, whatever. I eat all the time and never gain weight.
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    Difference between now and being a kid & teen ios how I handle those people. lol. I used to let people walk all over me.
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    Now its like. Eat a sandwich? Excuse me? Did I approach you and tell you how fucking ugly you are? No? Okay then. Buh buy now. lol
    +1
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    Yea I used to care what people thought of me, now, I could give two shits. You get what you get like it or leave it!
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    You can call me ugly we know already
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    @Xdqwerty Please talk to family about it, no reason to be ashamed, we all have issues in life. I bet your brother has had the same feelings as you at some point, he would relate. Not doing anything or asking for help only makes things worse.
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    Not only have I always been tall and skinny, Ive also had vitiligo since I was an early teen. It really sucks in the summer time as it sticks out liker a sore thumb. Large white patches all over my body including my face. Most of my original pigment color is gone.
  • K3Nv2 @ K3Nv2:
    Maybe look into local mental health centers also it's been more normalized as a second primary doctor these days
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    Again, even at 50+ i hear shit. Like "What happened to your face?"
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    So i've known about confidence issues my entire life.
  • BigOnYa @ BigOnYa:
    If anything I think it's cool to be weird, or as I see it Original, fuck that trying to be like everyone else or look like the fad/style of everyone else. I may may seem like you want to fit in with the crowd, but when you get older, you will see, it's ok to be out of the crowd.
  • Xdqwerty @ Xdqwerty:
    I don't like being autistic
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    Always remember that how others treat you is a reflection of who THEY are as a person, not of how you are.
    +1
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    My grand daughter is autistic. And incredibly brilliant at 7 yrs old.
  • RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars:
    They said she can ship a grade, possibly 2, because shes "gifted". She scored higher in some tests recently than the lady has seen any other kid test in her 20 years here.
    RedColoredStars @ RedColoredStars: They said she can ship a grade, possibly 2, because shes "gifted". She scored higher in some...