We have been fighting a lot lately, she was talking to her ex husband and flirting with guys and I caught her, then I became just a monster... Very upset and spying and accusing her of stuff literally almost insane lol
It's a hard situation. You didn't act in the best way and it weighs on you. I don't know, maybe you need time to forgive yourself, and some action from her that you don't ask that reassures her love and commitment
Ask any woman how she would feel if she never saw you again and stare at her to see how honest her facial expressions are about it women say shit just to make the guy look guilty
What you can do about it, Psionic, is maybe sit with her and calmly share how each action of hers made you feel, and ask her if there's anything she's missing from you or that's bothering her.
if you gave a woman your all and she wants to flirt with ex's that's on her and probably best to move on if she's just saying things to make you feel better