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But if you have Asperger syndrome, it would be an entirely different issue.No offense to anyone, but seriously, if you need a book to help with social anxiety, you got bigger problems to worry about! Just go out there and try, as many times as it takes, and you will get there on your own. If you fail, it's ok, try again, simple! First rule to not having social anxiety is to stop worrying about what others think, then it's smooth sailing.
I think that you have a fundamental misunderstanding as to how social anxiety worksNo offense to anyone, but seriously, if you need a book to help with social anxiety, you got bigger problems to worry about! Just go out there and try, as many times as it takes, and you will get there on your own. If you fail, it's ok, try again, simple! First rule to not having social anxiety is to stop worrying about what others think, then it's smooth sailing.
"If you have social anxiety, just get rid of it. Done."No offense to anyone, but seriously, if you need a book to help with social anxiety, you got bigger problems to worry about! Just go out there and try, as many times as it takes, and you will get there on your own. If you fail, it's ok, try again, simple! First rule to not having social anxiety is to stop worrying about what others think, then it's smooth sailing.
But if you have Asperger syndrome, it would be an entirely different issue.
Social anxiety in a person can be very light, or severe. The correct approach would be consulting a psychiatrist, and have cognitive behavorial therapy. Either way, if you have social anxiety (or autism) as much as you'd like to, you'll always have certain difficulties. This is why it's important to accept ourselves, because if you have some kind of
disability on one end, you're bound to have an ability to compensate for it.
I think that you have a fundamental misunderstanding as to how social anxiety works
My point flew over your heads it seems. What I was trying to say is that a BOOK won't help, you need to actually have some sort of social interactions (even if sheltered in the form of a psychiatrist) to overcome it. A book will do NOTHING, whether you admit it or not, it's the truth."If you have social anxiety, just get rid of it. Done."
A book with helpful advice tailored to people with your specific mental handicap is going to do a lot more to encourage someone to go out and interact with people at their own pace than just tossing them into a social situation headfirst and saying "be free, this will cure you!"My point flew over your heads it seems. What I was trying to say is that a BOOK won't help, you need to actually have some sort of social interactions (even if sheltered in the form of a psychiatrist) to overcome it. A book will do NOTHING, whether you admit it or not, it's the truth.
No offense to anyone, but seriously, if you need a book to help with social anxiety, you got bigger problems to worry about! Just go out there and try, as many times as it takes, and you will get there on your own. If you fail, it's ok, try again, simple! First rule to not having social anxiety is to stop worrying about what others think, then it's smooth sailing.
The key to social interactions is simple... Just realize that no one really gives a shit about what you have to say, and most people just want to hear themselves on repeat.
I don't care about what you have to say... I'd like to reiterate what I said alreadyYou should be a psychologist. No really! Your view on this subject goes so deep! Wow!!!!
What do you think a psychologist gonna do? He just gives some advice, its not a wizard.You should be a psychologist. No really! Your view on this subject goes so deep! Wow!!!!
My point flew over your heads it seems. What I was trying to say is that a BOOK won't help, you need to actually have some sort of social interactions (even if sheltered in the form of a psychiatrist) to overcome it. A book will do NOTHING, whether you admit it or not, it's the truth.
So what you're trying to tell us is to basically overcome something not knowing how? You're being quite ambiguous leading me to believe you probably don't understand or have had an easier experience. If it honestly were that simple many people wouldn't even be glimpsing at this thread, in fact the book at subjection wouldn't even exist lol. You're sort of defying the actual point of the 'illness', people with Social Anxiety literally can't.No offense to anyone, but seriously, if you need a book to help with social anxiety, you got bigger problems to worry about! Just go out there and try, as many times as it takes, and you will get there on your own. If you fail, it's ok, try again, simple! First rule to not having social anxiety is to stop worrying about what others think, then it's smooth sailing.
Again, the book is literally advice and helping people overcome it, a book can do a lot of things for example encourage and motivate you, even if it doesn't exactly apply.My point flew over your heads it seems. What I was trying to say is that a BOOK won't help, you need to actually have some sort of social interactions (even if sheltered in the form of a psychiatrist) to overcome it. A book will do NOTHING, whether you admit it or not, it's the truth.
Just because you like to hear yourself on repeat, does not mean everybody else does. Actually, it just makes you an insensitive douchebag with a lack of empathy and compassion. Your mother must be proud.I don't care about what you have to say... I'd like to reiterate what I said already
Yep I did. Same username there :-)Looks as if someone just found this off a certain bargain website and reposted it here.
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It explains what social anxiety is, symptoms etc. I think if you know what you have you are better equipped to deal with it. You'll know what is part of your mental illness (that you can change if you know what to do) and what is part of your personality and temperament (part of you, that you can't/shouldn't try to change). You might even learn that you don't have social anxiety at all, something milder that isn't a mental illness. That could make you more confident about fixing it (if you wish to).Can a book be that helpful?
to me, if you can apply what someone tell you to do, I'm almost certain you already knew you could do that. you don't wait until someone tell you about it to do it.
if you are not willing to do it, the book will not make you do what you can't or don't want to do.
feel free to replace "book" with "psychoanalyst" or whoever who thinks he knows what's best for you.
just my own vision.
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I don't know what the book is about. talking about the problem, or telling you what you need to do yourself? (edit again: seems it's the former)
everyone's different, there's no single universal solution you can apply to everyone.
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