So...elitest crafters....blargh!

I craft. This means that I need art supplies. I am also in a tiny university town, and there's this local store that's all sorts of awesome in terms of supplies and all that good stuff. Anyhow, it's just a quirk of mine that I rather support a locally owned store than a big box store.

The last time I was there, was last semester. My girlfriend needed a paper blotter and bought one from them. No biggie, until I needed to head to the store today for stamp pads and a lino cutter nib. (The nib is the cutting portion of the thing - I managed to drop mine from a great height, completely screwing up the cutting edge.)

I go in, and I do a preliminary walk around the store. (Note: I'm still holding my bookbag, because - hey, expensive college textbooks are NOT worth losing.) The owner is giving me the evil eye because there was a sign saying "all bags must go behind the counter". I don't see the lino cutters until I'm ready to walk out the door. By this time, the owner is openly staring and making excuses to watch me (putting back stock near me, and different things). I make my decision, grabbing 1 package of the number 1 nibs and pay and leave with them. As I leave, I remember that I also needed colorful stamp pads - I go back in and ask the owner where they are. This time, I deliberately put my backpack on the counter. I still have my purse, although. She gives me wrong directions and sends me to an aisle over. As I'm making the decision; the owner puts stock back into place near me and also watches me like a hawk. I pay, and leave for the second time. The owner doesn't make conversation and kind of makes me mad with the 'she doesn't look like a crafter, watch her" dealie.

The sad thing is: I'd probably go back and give the store more business. I'm totally addicted to stamp making now.

Dumb thing 1: I'm feeling slightly sick, and I go to the bus terminal to head home to crash. The bus terminal is your classic greyhound station, dirty/skanky looking and rather skeevy feeling, but I thought I knew the station well enough. Well...no. I walked into the men's washroom at the station. Did an immediate about face, and walked out. Thank god nobody was in there.

Dumb thing 2: We have the winter "frosh" week now. Our Pride committee has a "flaming night out" - basically campfires and s'mores. We are listed in the frosh week schedule, but just as "free s'mores" and campfires. It's not fair - all other clubs/organizations have their stuff listed under their names, plus a lot of people would be uncomfortable with a bunch of transwomen/transmen and all the rest of the committee. It's an improvement over last semester where we were basically shunned and told, "NO - you can't have a slot in the schedule".

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If you need crafts, Why not bite the bullet and go to Micheals arts and crafts?
 
[quote name='Davess' post='2529874' date='Jan 13 2010, 10:25 AM']If you need crafts, Why not bite the bullet and go to Micheals arts and crafts?[/quote]

Because it's a very long bus ride from my university to the "local" Micheals arts and crafts? I'd probably go look there if I need more stuff - but I very rarely venture into an arts/crafts store because of the horrid prices!
 
This is the only problem with small local craft shops and the like.
They have a lot more to lose than a large hobby store due to inventory theft, and so they do tend to watch you rather closely. The ladies at my local art shop used to watch me closely wen I was selecting beads. twine, etc, from their inventory, until they came to know me as a regular customer.

Hopefully over time their suspicion of you should decrease, after seeing you more often.

When I note people watching me with blatant suspicion I take on a "kill them with kindness" mentality.
Grin and tell them hello. (don't smile. Grin. They will be more suspicious of this at first, but in the long run it actually helps) Ask them about the inventory, even if you know all about it already. Since you're a crafter, you could ask where you might be able to find a display area for your wares.
In essence; force them to have a conversation with you.

Not only will they begin to warm up to you, they'll remember you better by the time you visit them again.

Good luck with this.
 
[quote name='astrangeone' post='2528857' date='Jan 12 2010, 11:39 PM']I am also in a tiny university town[/quote]
Kingston. :creep:
 
I'm not sure if this has happened to me, I usually have headphones on so I'm not sure I'd notice anyway. I'm the type to walk into an art store and spend at least 15 mins, sometimes even an hour just wandering around looking at everything, even if I know what I came in for. I often leave with more than I intended, so I guess it's good business for them.
 
@ playallday: Nope. St. Catharines. Go Badgers! :D

@ Psyfira: yeah, I do the same. But that day I was just hoping to replace fucked up blades, and wanting to get out before I decided to spend money that I didn't need to.

@ Vulpes Abnucto: I don't sell my stuff, although, I'm thinking of it. Personally, I rather make some money on the side with it, but not too many people appreciate hand made stuff anymore.
 
[quote name='astrangeone' post='2531110' date='Jan 14 2010, 04:50 AM']@ playallday: Nope. St. Catharines. Go Badgers! :D

@ Psyfira: yeah, I do the same. But that day I was just hoping to replace fucked up blades, and wanting to get out before I decided to spend money that I didn't need to.

@ Vulpes Abnucto: I don't sell my stuff, although, I'm thinking of it. Personally, I rather make some money on the side with it, but not too many people appreciate hand made stuff anymore.[/quote]

One word. Etsy.
 
Yeah, been thinking of creating an Etsy account. Should get around to it considering that registering is free - and making stuff for it shouldn't stress me out at all.
 
I too recommend Etsy. It seems daunting at first because there are a lot of people on it, but quality products always get noticed, and it seems that most sellers are having no trouble making SOME money from it.

As for craft stores, bleh. There was a DeSerres near me where I used to live, and the people running it were such elitist snobs. It's crafting people, what the hell are you being elitist snobs for? Needless to say I didn't go back there very often. I'd rather go out of my way to a small independent shop than patronize a business that makes me feel bad just for walking in the door.
 

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