-Sigh-

I've lately been liking these 2 girls, I've really like them.
they talk to me and all but they dont like like me
i asked one out and said no and same for the other

but i really like one of them..... :glare:

my mate told me basically to grow some balls and ask them out so i did...
my problem is i've made my mind up on the one but shes not saying yes
poop

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That's really not a problem that can be overcome. You manned up, you asked out the girl you liked, and she rejected you. That is the end of the story. You don't get to simply "make up your mind" that she's the girl for you and that she will date you no matter what. She has some say in it too. In fact, given the side of the infatuation that you're on she has all the say.

You've been rejected, it's time to heal and move on. Pursuing this further and from the the mental viewpoint you seem to have will only come across as stalker-like and attempted rapist-esque. And I'm sorry things didn't work out in your favor.
 
Yeah i guess...im foolish to think like that..

I'm not good talking to girls.....i get embarrassed
i guess there more fish in the sea.. :(

thanks anyway
 
[quote name='x-mah-D' post='1784050' date='Feb 19 2009, 06:05 AM']Yeah i guess...im foolish to think like that..

I'm not good talking to girls.....i get embarrassed
i guess there more fish in the sea.. :(

thanks anyway[/quote]
That's the spirit. And better luck next time.
 
[quote name='moozxy' post='1784062' date='Feb 19 2009, 03:11 AM']two girls one x-mah-D
poop[/quote]Can't wait for the reaction vids to start popping up on YouTube :creep:
 
I haven't even dated in 11 years, so forgive me if I don't feel bad for you.
 
Similar problem here but with one girl, and I still don't have the balls to ask her out lol, and I don't think I ever will and I don't know why. I guess I just need to hang out with her more, I like her and she (well to me at least) seems to like me back. I don't really know though lol, so I just keep small talk most of the time and ask if she wants to hang out sometimes and she agrees. So I guess we will see where it goes from there.

There are other girls out there though, you can't really try to get the girl once she rejects you which I think is why I am afraid to ask her because we already have a really good friendship and I don't want it to end like that if she rejects me.
 
Trust me when I say the best way to go about things is not look for girls to like, but wait until you find someone who you really warm up to. Chasing after girls as soon as they show positive reactions to you (though I'm not necessarily accusing you of doing it, just saying in general seeing as most guys do) - or even if they don't - won't work most of the time.
It's difficult advice to understand I guess, but my point is when the girl comes along, she'll come along. If no-one does, then that's it, tying yourself to a woman for the sake of not being lonely is also a bad decision.
 

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