Relationship Stuff

To be fairly honest? Don't wish to date at young ages, just don't. Dating is a real and serious compromise with someone. I think it's way better for you to wait until you are 16 or so to actually engage with someone in an actual manner. I know this might sound annoying, but believe me, you will thank me. Dating right now is very, very boring. Loving someone and falling in love is okay, but even talking by self-experience, this entire lovey dovey thing can actually end up being problematic.

But, if you really want tips, here they go:
Try to discover the person's interests and adapt yourself into them. You don't gotta love everything the other person loves and all, but having common interests always help in starting a conversation, for example.

Find someone that you know you trust, love, and actually want to be with. And really, really think well if that's a person you'd like to spend time with and dedicate hours with them. This is gonna be something very important, believe me.

And third is, be loyal. Just please. I don't think this needs explanation. Just be loyal. If you love someone else or you're not satisfied with the person you're with, talk to them. Explain the situation. Even if you don't want to hurt the person's feelings, you gotta talk to them and make them understand.

in USA, 14 years old kids just have to enjoy life and play games
in my country 14 years old kids already have sex and do shit lol





i'm actually saying the truth lol

Well, I can't speak much about the modern concept of "dating", but I could tell the (brief) story of how I met my ex-wife at some point (me 18, her 21) as it'd be relatable. Trouble is, I don't think that certain portions would be site/age appropriate.

@Chary just be yourself is the worst advice you can give. You'll spend so much time wondering what "yourself" is that you'll end up being somebody you aren't.

"I tried being myself, and then I realized I'm an asshole..."

just be yourself

- Don't alienate your friends for a relationship. Friends are a pillar and the people you can always come back to.
- Having fun in life is ok, but learning is also very important, the more you learn now and in the next few years, the easier your life will be, and the easier you'll be able to focus on stable relationships later.

I am really not getting this "wait" business. It risks being truly counterproductive from where I sit.

Basic human developmental psychology, psychology of play and whatnot is that you get to make mistakes and learn in a safe environment such that you don't have to (or have to as much) later on. To deny someone the opportunity to do such things seems like a right cunt thing to do.
Yes "relationship" means something rather different at such ages, it is generally a handwave that society makes -- it is not going to be a deep and meaningful connection like it might be in some 25+ year olds (25 is an interesting age in psychology but different matter for a different thread), yes it will probably implode in some pointless drama in less time than I will keep the end on my electric toothbrush for, no doubt much of said drama will be caused by some pointless irrationality that teenage girls are so adept at pulling off and the OP will have no idea how to handle, yes said implosion will probably appear cute and minor to those that have already been through what might be deemed "proper" heartbreak and the existential crisis that results will be just as cute as said 14 year old complaining of stress*, yes even if it lasts longer than my toothbrush the long term chances of it are so vanishingly small that you can safely say it won't happen (and frankly if it does it will likely not be good -- high school is just a nightmarish combo of people of the same age and geographic location as well as sociopathic tendencies all thrown in together, chances of common interests in that... yeah), and yes it will be missing many other "key" components many seek in relationships. Again such things are not done to find said connection but to give the person a basic understanding of the ways such things play out while they are perfectly free to make mistakes.

*though I would say that remember things are relative and if the person lacks the knowledge/experience then it is still going to be quite unpleasant for them. Being dismissive then being a less than ideal way to set about things.

By the way OP if you are still reading this then this would be what I said I would skip in the last paragraph. In my experience, and the experience of most that study such things for the last however many thousand years, most your age won't listen to what I have said in this reply but you may recall this or a similar conversation at some point in the years to come and think "heh". It may happen for longer still -- I have friends in their 20s and early 30s right now in some fairly toxic relationships that we could all say you want to get out of but until they figure that out for themselves, or we really have to intercede, there is not much to do but wait and be there for when the realisation hits.

Blogs so song

"Don't be stupid, ya moron!" - Ben Stern

Do you have a computer or phone?

DRAGONBALLVINTAGE
no
he is from the future and connected his brain to internet

@BlueFox gui he could be using the school computer or his 3DS

well i don't know about computers in schools
but from what i heard they block most part of sites
also
believe on me MAH BOI
use GBATEMP on 3DS is almost impossible : )

I used GBATemp on a DSi

@DRAGONBALLVINTAGE a recent update to GBATemp broke it on the DSi ad 3DS

Welp

There’s nothing wrong with a little puppy love, but don’t take things too seriously. You are young, be yourself and learn from experience

beware the broho. You may find yourself friends with a chick (mine were emo's) that hangs out with you all the time, she's like your bro, but everyone sees you both as a couple. If you look needy nobody will want you. That's why dating websites the ladies are pathetic. There's no challenge there and women like challenge too. if you get a girls number don't always respond to texts right away don't let it show you've read it. make her worry, be productive. The good of broho's besides being friends with a lady is you can talk to them of whatever you may find yourself covered in them well some will want more than friendship. (be careful because they're prone to sharing and it can be hard managing 3 ladies at once.) If a lady online wants to be your sister in a game it's really that she wants to be close to you so that when you become single she'll be right there like I steal yo boiz. Don't feel bad of having these imaginary sisters around. They like you and they want your attention and their willing to wait to have you. Just realize they can only wait so long before they go around hunting for another guy. So if you think she's worth having let her know you love her back.

Don't ever brag about a girl to guys or try to use them as a trophy. Only two things happen. Your lady is gonna dump you for another guy and or the guy you told will walk away laughing. why? because she's a slut and she'll fk anyone.
Avoid the sluts. they are temptations, but realize that they fuck a lot of dudes and any std's she's got you can get. She's probably banged a 40 yr old once or twice, as gross as that is it's pretty accurate.
Learn to smile a lot. chin up, not to say man up, but eyes and smile are important.
Learn what love is. (the desire to be with someone) You have a ton of ladies to hit on all that you'll know somewhat. Once you graduate you won't be seeing any of them so don't feel bad of feeling dumb ( my pants fell down in class.)
guy advice: Don't let anyone ANYONE see you cry. If people know how to get under your skin they'l make your life hell. eq emotional quality. The better you can control your emotions the better off you are in life.

Anime chicks. They are the mermaid of the world if you find one beware, they come in varieties from succubus to basement trolls. Your best off avoiding them if they have a crazy level above 6. And if she's chill and lower than a 2 crazy she's a t******. And your favorite martian will be playing in your mind.

Best advice I can give. Don't be addicted to women. Love for love. Some guys might think juggling 10 women at a time hell there's a lot of guys that might think that's what being a man is, but they don't know love. They might even call the girl the wrong name. If you end up 23 like me. Don't go to bars hoping to get some one night stand. Life isn't about that. If you follow that philosophy you'll be a 40 yr old dude paying child support living off mcdonalds and you'll be told and to poor and your life will be shit. Don't be that dude. There's enough kids out there without family or a father. And without guidance it's hard to know what they'll end up.

good advice.

If shes emo she don't need no