My Umm Girlfriend

So we were talking today and she admits that she's kinda a bitch but i tell her vice versa ,well okay like 30% of guys maybe more we like to relate something pertaining to sex but its a primitive thing and i guess i do it alot and she was asked me "If you wee playing the game and i wanted you to hold me while you played the game would you without getting mad?". I replied "yes i would , i'd actually like it " few minutes later she tells me "babe one day i want you just shut me up by shaking me and kissing me!" . i was like "well expect it cause its coming ... then we can smash after i kiss you " (Big Mistake!) . maybe "make love wouldve sounded better but it wouldnt have stopped on what came next >_> . She Yelled "Why does everything have to be about sex with you?!?!" i was said in a nice manner " okay babe i'll stop talking about sex period okay". Then she said something else and i didnt really hear her and she got moody and she went to sleep . - Any Suggestions , Comments , Or Any "What You-Shouldve Done " just want a different perspective on this( Oh And Me And Her Are Almost Alike keyword ALMOST :/)

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What to do? Firstly really think about it... Do you really talk about/have sex that much? If so change that. In her position (I'm a guy so this is guess work) I would have wanted to have been shutup (like she said via you kissing her). I really wouldn't have wanted to have sex. How to make it up to her... That's easy. Show her that you care about her more than sex.

Too long, didn't read: Make sure she knows how much you love her.

Be sweet to her (unless that isn't her thing), cuddle her, buy her small gifts (every so often), talk to her, listen (carefully) to her, kiss her passionately (sometimes fiercely or slowly), be as considerate as possible. I'm sure you get the idea.
 
try to be romantic, buy her favourite flowers or her favourite chocolates. really try to think about something that she likes. most girls actually judge a guy on how romantic he is.
 
[quote name='masked girl' timestamp='1326440985'] try to be romantic, buy her favourite flowers or her favourite chocolates. really try to think about something that she likes. most girls actually judge a guy on how romantic he is. [/quote] I knew I was missing important stuff.
 
What is this grade 9.
I'm usually constructive in blogs like this, but jesus, come on.
You said something stupid. The solution is to not say something stupid next time. You'll forget though, and say something stupid anyway. She'll get mad. She'll eventually stop being mad.
Repeat. It's pretty normal.
If it's a specific thing triggering her anger, it shouldn't be that hard to STOP doing that specific thing that triggers her anger.
 
Let your girlfriend spend time with you without thinking that sex is a given! It's kind of insulting that you said "then we can smash after I kiss you". She's talking about romance and being emotionally close to her, and you are talkiing about making the beast with two backs. She isn't a sex toy, you know?
 
What ever you do, do not say anything like I was joking or something,
because believe it or not girls like to know that guys find them sexually attractive enough to have sex with.
 
[quote name='ZarCastro_287545' timestamp='1326458827'] Hmm do you still live with your mom , if not ill take you advice with a shot of Vodka :D [/quote]

My living situation doesn't make your stupidity less relevant.
 
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[quote name='ZarCastro_287545' timestamp='1326458827'] Hmm do you still live with your mom , if not ill take you advice with a shot of Vodka :D [/quote] My living situation doesn't make your stupidity less relevant.
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