My girlfriend's dad threatens to "beat my ass" when he sees me... thoughts and advice?

So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 1 year and a half and I still haven't seen her parents not once in my life. I've met her grandparents (she lives with them) , they both enjoy my company as well as have respect for me. I've always wanted to meet her parents but ever since we started dating she had always kept me away from her parents due to the fact that she is doesn't like them and that she feels something between me and her dad will pop off. I've been warned by her whole family that her dad will try to fight me if we ever meet and I have also gotten word that he will beat my ass. Her dad is from the hood and all his life he has gotten into fights, I also heard that he broke someone's nose for looking at his wife . I really think that talking to him is no option due to his past and that we really might fight. If this even ever happens what should I do ??
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King Zargo
Hit the gym and start self defence training. You need to dominate him when you first meet him.
 
dAVID_
The problem is, even if you don't want to, you'll eventually meet him by accident.
Maybe he's just a jackass all-american redneck who's very christian and is manipulative
of womem. You should study him from a distance to see his body structure. If it's bulky,
you should definitely wait until you build up more muscle, and if not, you should learn
some self-defence.
Pepper-spraying him isn't being a pussy, it's being prudent and avoiding unwanted risks.
If he does beeat you up, which may happen, get a friend to watch you from a distance.
That won't be possible all the time, so you SHOULD get the pepper spray.

Being a pussy and being prudent is never the same concept.
 
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but if he pepper spray him, then that's it, he will always have a negative view of him, try to be the better man and react accordingly to the circumstances.
 
BARNWEY
If you're respectful towards him, and call her parents Me./Mrs. (Insert last name here), you should be good. He probably won't try to pick a fight then because he'll look like a dick to his wife, daughter, and the rest of the family. Not to mention, if his wife becomes angry towards him, he would be more fucked than you would be if he tried to kick your ass. So, like I said, being respectful goes a long way...
 
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Dont meet him. and if you do meet him, then keep distance from which you can run - a couple of meters should do the job.
if you know you will meet him and the time/place where it will happen, try to ask a friend to look from a distance and help/call police if shit happens. if you can choose the meeting place, choose a public one, where there are lots of people, or where some people who he respects/ who respect him are, and it will automatically make him less violent.
pepper spray can do you more harm then good, as it may even worsen the "relationship" with him- someone who gets hurt may never forgive, more so for people who know how strong they are as it breaks their ego. but of course its better to use then being beaten up by him...
if she doesnt want you to meet him- just dont, there is a reason for that, and sounds like a good one...
 
Hells Malice
Pepper spraying him is being a pussy. Her family would likely remember you negatively too.

Which is why if you're not ready to potentially get your ass beaten and gain some respect, don't meet him. There's no point, nor reason. If you did fight him, because he's a hood rat, you might actually get some respect.
 
sarkwalvein
I'm not supporting the pepper spray option, but...
How would getting your ass beaten by the father your girlfriend really doesn't want you to meet gain you some respect?
If she says he is violent and a basket case, she probably knows better. Perhaps it's better to stay away from him.
 
chrisrlink
I'd say check his back ground (it's public for criminal background) check for stuff like Murder gang relations (ESPECIALLY THIS) how many times arrested some ppl are not afraid to go to prison ya know oh and if he does make sure two things 1) restraining order 2) move cause i can promise you he gets out he'll finish the job also how old are you? and her? it might not be worth it dude
 
invaderyoyo
I don't understand how some people think calling the police on this dude's gf is a good idea. That's obviously not gonna help his relationship. Just avoid him.
 
FAST6191
re: "don't be the one"/"it wouldn't help the relationship"

I don't see it. If the girl in question has seemingly all but disowned her parents. If you shopped one of my parents to the filth I would be upset because I quite like mine, however if you shopped uncle fuckwit then not a lot would happen from me or mine despite him sharing DNA.

Granted there might be an element of "I told you they were no good and you persisted in seeing them"
 

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