My beloved mother is in trouble.

To be honest, he kind of sits around all day like he's got something to hide. He's super secretive, doesn't talk much, but doesn't seem to be shy. (if you understand that.) it's just weird, that's all. We just don't trust him for some reason. The computer thing is purely if he's talking to other women.

So I'm confused... What have you spoken to your mum about him? Like what does she see in him? Out of all men what makes him stand out?

Other than the internet thing, seems like there's more to his weird behaviour :S

[quote name='sonknuck23' post='3175780' date='Oct 4 2010, 05:06 PM']To be honest, he kind of sits around all day like he's got something to hide. He's super secretive, doesn't talk much, but doesn't seem to be shy. (if you understand that.) it's just weird, that's all. We just don't trust him for some reason. The computer thing is purely if he's talking to other women.[/quote]

You sound like a brat, to be honest.

You don't trust him because he deleted his browser history and that he's quiet. A lot of people are awkward in new situations, adult or not.

If you don't like your mom dating, get the fuck over yourself - she has a right to be happy too, and whether or not the same thing makes you happy is irrelevant.

The only way he's getting rid of the data on the HDD to a point where it can't be recovered is if he goes and replaces it, which someone would notice.
The information is safe, but I don't know about your mother.


I'd let her know how you feel about this guy. Eventually, she'll become subconsciously suspicious of him and lose trust in him. After that, she'll get rid of him, hopefully before it's too late.
Better yet, let HIM know. He'll think twice about anything if he knows he's not trusted.

I've seen some bad advice being given on forums in the past, but advising some one to get a gun just because the person doesn't happen to like his mum's boyfriend, because he deletes his browser history and has bad breath is just fucking pathetic.

Oh for the love of fuck, I don't have anything against my mom dating. If I really need to specify, she's dated in the past and it hasn't bothered me. This is some random fucking guy from Chicago who she knew TWENTY YEARS AGO. And yes, I spoke to her, she's worried about him too. She's been skipping work 'cause she's afraid to leave him home alone.

So all you kids who are all "omg ur moms in love get over it" shut your fucking mouths, Jesus Christ.

"You sound like a brat, to be honest." -> get on your knee's and S. on my D. plz. kthx


To dig deeper into the story: She's worried about the browser history thing is because she's paranoid he's doing something she doesn't like. If he's watching porn, okay, big fucking deal. But she doesn't know the guy. She thinks she does, she thought she did, and the moment he came here, she got freaked out. (we spoke today while I was at work on break.)

We want to find out what he's doing, because SHE HAS PERSONAL INFO ON HER PC AND SHE'S AFRAID HE'S SHARING IT WITH PEOPLE. Yes, Maybe it sounds ridiculous, but to be honest, it's not impossible. Maybe you could say "well she shouldn't of left her personal info on her PC."

Maybe she shouldn't of, she's not me, I'm just her son and I worry about her a lot. Send me to jail, I over-worry about my mom. Oh fuckin' no!!!

Anyways, you can all stop posting because I did the best advice I was given on here, which was to just talk to her about it. Your comments about assuming I just didn't like him 'cause I don't like my mom dating (when in actuality I support her dating because she NEEDS TO GET THE FUCK OUT MORE AND MEET PEOPLE) and telling me to buy fire-arms made me wish this topic WASN'T moved into the Blog Section. (I was told I'd get more useful and better advice.)

Anyway, shit's dealt with, turns out he's been trying to get into her online banking account. (Forgetting to delete the history is the biggest mistake you could make.) Not too sure what he was trying to do, but my mom got kind of worried and just started talking to him. I'm kind of hoping he's going back to Chicago 'cause I also didn't like him, he was pretty fuckin' awkward and boring.

Anyway, this was one hell of a topic, very productive. Thanks for all of your help, all of you. (I mean that, and if you're wondering why I bothered saying thanks (specifically), it probably wasn't towards you haha.)