Long Distance Stupidness

Ok so this is my first blog post, well long story short, i met a girl who lives in Minnesota. She likes me, i kinda like her, we Facetime on iTouch every night till like 4 in the morning. I'm 17, shes 15, she might be coming to ny in spring, but after that who can say.

Long Story:
Feeling like shit on New Years , i decide to go video chatting on omegle into the wee hours of the night spreading new years cheer hoping it would rub off on me, and make me feel better. Was pretty bad a lot of the time, me being black, i got called [censored] some 300 times, disconnected another 100 along with those that called me [censored], and only a few people actually stopped talking to me. then going through i found 2 girls having a sleepover, and i thought "oh great, one will tell the other to disconnect and that'll be it, but they actually stayed and we talked and what not. I saw she had an iTouch, and jokingly remarked that we should Facetime. To my surprise she actually agreed and gave me her email. then we facetimed and it ended up that both of us got off Omegle. blah blah blah. they're having a sleep over, blah blah blah playing wii, and setting it up for me to watch. blah blah blah getting late, still on Facetime. about 5 they go to bed, and so do i, feeling much better. Not expecting anything the next day i go about my business, when all of a sudden i get a Facetime call from her. so we talk and talk and talk some more, till she has to go, gives me her phone number to text her, then gone. skip 2 very late nights of Facetime to today, she likes me, or at the least is attracted to me, (probably didnt help i Facetimed without a shirt on and had my abs showing >_<) im kinda attracted to her as well, so ask you all in the great method of /b/. What do.

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[quote name='GamerzInc' post='3371106' date='Jan 4 2011, 07:29 PM']So you like two girls, but aren't dating either one?[/quote]
No, he likes one...I thought that at first, but realized the second part was explaining how he met her.
 
[quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371111' date='Jan 4 2011, 09:34 PM']yea sorry, she had a friend over for new years, im talking about the one with the itouch. im working on getting a pic[/quote]
Don't.
It's like the creepiest thing you could do, showing her off to everyone here.
If you do this thread will go downhill(er).
 
Long distance?

I stay away from those (not to say I'm knocking it, I haven't tried it after all), simply because there's no sex involved. Emotions are cool and all, but my 'old brain' (look it up, kids) controls quite a bit of my pleasure, so y'know.

'Sides, I would imagine that you would lose interest much quicker in a long distance relationship, although, again, I have nothing to back that up.
 
[quote name='Goli' post='3371116' date='Jan 5 2011, 01:36 AM'][quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371111' date='Jan 4 2011, 09:34 PM']yea sorry, she had a friend over for new years, im talking about the one with the itouch. im working on getting a pic[/quote]
Don't.
It's like the creepiest thing you could do, showing her off to everyone here.
If you do this thread will go downhill(er).
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Emphasis on the 'er' -_-'
It'd be...so, so creepy D:
 
You tell her?
Girls don't exactly hate being told that they're liked.


I say give it a whirl. If anything better comes along, you can cut it off without anyone being too upset.
 
[quote name='_Chaz_' post='3371125' date='Jan 4 2011, 07:40 PM']You tell her?
Girls don't exactly hate being told that they're liked.


I say give it a whirl. If anything better comes along, you can cut it off without anyone being too upset.[/quote]
she knows how i think, but if only the latter were true, girls are very intricate
 
Nice story
I think just see the relationship through
Either you'll meet and be happy together <3
or
you'll talk for a few weeks or months and grow apart </3

If you don't then you might regret it for a while
 
[quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371128' date='Jan 4 2011, 08:41 PM'][quote name='_Chaz_' post='3371125' date='Jan 4 2011, 07:40 PM']You tell her?
Girls don't exactly hate being told that they're liked.


I say give it a whirl. If anything better comes along, you can cut it off without anyone being too upset.[/quote]
she knows how i think, but if only the latter were true, girls are very intricate
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Not really...

For the most part (of course, excluding societal factors like how many women are sucked into the "omaigawshjewelry" thing), women are exactly the same as men.

You just have to realize that they have feelings to, and they might not be the same as yours.
 
i mean for my age, if its one thing i know its women. i can calculate exactly what the right thing to say would be and achieve a positive reaction, as well as know when to hold my tongue on other things. im just trying to figure out whether i should let it get far or not since the only time i could possibly see her in real life so far is in spring when she is supposed to be coming to NY
 
[quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371152' date='Jan 4 2011, 09:50 PM']i mean for my age, if its one thing i know its women. i can calculate exactly what the right thing to say would be and achieve a positive reaction, as well as know when to hold my tongue on other things. im just trying to figure out whether i should let it get far or not since the only time i could possibly see her in real life so far is in spring when she is supposed to be coming to NY[/quote]
Really?
Well, if that's true I don't see why you resort to Omegle... or FaceTiming with some random girl you met on Omegle.
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[quote name='Goli' post='3371154' date='Jan 4 2011, 07:52 PM'][quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371152' date='Jan 4 2011, 09:50 PM']i mean for my age, if its one thing i know its women. i can calculate exactly what the right thing to say would be and achieve a positive reaction, as well as know when to hold my tongue on other things. im just trying to figure out whether i should let it get far or not since the only time i could possibly see her in real life so far is in spring when she is supposed to be coming to NY[/quote]
Really?
Well, if that's true I don't see why you resort to Omegle... or FaceTiming with some random girl you met on Omegle.
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My thoughts exactly.
 
i wasnt looking for a girl there lol. and i didnt think she would say yes. and frankly the majority of girls in my school are incredibly unattractive

Edit: Also it doesnt help that im not one of the popular kids nor better looking ones in my school either.
 
[quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371168' date='Jan 4 2011, 10:02 PM']i wasnt looking for a girl there lol. and i didnt think she would say yes. and frankly the majority of girls in my school are incredibly unattractive

Edit: Also it doesnt help that im not one of the popular kids nor better looking ones in my school either.[/quote]
Well, one would think that if you know exactly what to say to achieve a positive reaction with girls you'd be popular.
Maybe you... don't actually know what to say to achieve a positive reaction with girls.
 
[quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371168' date='Jan 4 2011, 08:02 PM']i wasnt looking for a girl there lol. and i didnt think she would say yes. and frankly the majority of girls in my school are incredibly unattractive

Edit: Also it doesnt help that im not one of the popular kids nor better looking ones in my school either.[/quote]
So you gotta know karate cause yer face chopped? But hey you gots them sweet abs right?

This thread reeks of BS.

Maybe it's just the fact that you know you'll probably never see this girl so really there was nothing to loose so you went all in. Confident wise that is. It's a big confident booster knowing you have nothing to loose.
 
[quote name='Goli' post='3371177' date='Jan 4 2011, 08:08 PM'][quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371168' date='Jan 4 2011, 10:02 PM']i wasnt looking for a girl there lol. and i didnt think she would say yes. and frankly the majority of girls in my school are incredibly unattractive

Edit: Also it doesnt help that im not one of the popular kids nor better looking ones in my school either.[/quote]
Well, one would think that if you know exactly what to say to achieve a positive reaction with girls you'd be popular.
Maybe you... don't actually know what to say to achieve a positive reaction with girls.
[/quote]
Not necessarily. High school hierarchy is heavily influenced by superficial characteristics.
 
[quote name='_Chaz_' post='3371185' date='Jan 4 2011, 08:11 PM'][quote name='Goli' post='3371177' date='Jan 4 2011, 08:08 PM'][quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371168' date='Jan 4 2011, 10:02 PM']i wasnt looking for a girl there lol. and i didnt think she would say yes. and frankly the majority of girls in my school are incredibly unattractive

Edit: Also it doesnt help that im not one of the popular kids nor better looking ones in my school either.[/quote]
Well, one would think that if you know exactly what to say to achieve a positive reaction with girls you'd be popular.
Maybe you... don't actually know what to say to achieve a positive reaction with girls.
[/quote]
Not necessarily. High school hierarchy is heavily influenced by superficial characteristics.
[/quote]

^^^^ This all the fucking way. Popular means attractive party kids. im not a party kid. its up to others as to how attractive i am. AND may i add i have female friends that im cool with, they just dont look at me in that way because im not with the popular kids.

AND to 431, believe it or not nothing here is bullshit. i have abs because im on the track team. but its not like i walk around with a shirt off for all the girls to see >_>. and where the hell did karate come from?
 
[quote name='iggloovortex' post='3371198' date='Jan 4 2011, 08:18 PM']and where the hell did karate come from?[/quote]
He was making a joke.

Kinda like "You might need some duct tape, because you're ripped!" except with a negative inference in this case.
 

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