Life sure does get farty

Well hey how are you?

Well me and my lady friend are taking time out so I'm just here all on my own, drinking vodka, grape juice and orange. I'm missing my kid really badly even though its like been not even two days. Since my kid was born my GF has kinda changed into a moaning, depressing woman and she's not been as fun as she use to be though we did still have some great times the tension between us has been really off. We keep fighting a lot so we decided to just cool things off for a while and just spend time alone apart. Apparently her health visitor says she might have some problems with hormones which apparently some women have.

Anyway she's with her parents, with my daughter which is harsh really but I'll be looking after little Evie on Thursday for a while, while my GF talks to someone about her hormones.

Yeah life is farty at times, gotta hope that we get back together and things can be back to normal.

For now, gotta keep busy.

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PBC
Postpartum Depression? Not gonna really diagnose someone reading a paragraph blurb but yeah..
Sorry to hear about it.

Life can be a box of chocolates and somedays we can all be alittle bit diabetic.

Music has always been a savior for myself and most I know. As long as you don't further depress yourself with it aka emo?

Best of wishes anywho.

Ps. Emo joke. And just don't click the spoiler if you've already heard it
(which you may have by now)

How many Emokids does it take to change a light bulb??
Non, They would rather cry in the dark
 
Hadrian
[quote name='PBC' post='1103468' date='Apr 22 2008, 09:48 PM']Postpartum Depression? Not gonna really diagnose someone reading a paragraph blurb but yeah..
Sorry to hear about it.

Life can be a box of chocolates and somedays we can all be alittle bit diabetic.

Music has always been a savior for myself and most I know. As long as you don't further depress yourself with it aka emo?

Best of wishes anywho.[/quote]
Thanks

I've had a shitload of Beatles on lately, always good for me.
 
VVoltz
Hang on there Hadrian!, just be with her, spoil her and she'll be back to normal in no time.
Don't YOU get depresed, as you said, keep yourself busy. Besides, you've got us!

Hang on there buddy, things will work out, you know what the Bible says, for every good season of fat cows there is abad season of slim crazy ones. Life has its cycles, hang on tight and enjoy the ride.

So you have been listening to the Beatles too?, crap, dude, stop stalking me!!!!

No seriously, I don't wanna freak you out again, but we are very much alike, only... I'm cooler.
 
Westside
Dude, Hadrian, I can't say I know what you are going through, because I really don't, but whatever you do in life, be motivated and dedicated about it. If you let something push you, it will push you further. If you put your heart into it and fight back, in the end, it will be worth it.

Lol, I am not telling you to fight your wife BTW, I am telling you to fight the hardships.
 
MC DUI
Work through it Hadrian! If you really care about her then you need to support her, would be such a difficult thing to go through post natal depression.

Hope things work out for you!

Having a daughter myself in a few months.
 
Orc
Hadrian strong. Hadrian can hold on long.

Funny thing is, when life does get "farty" I also talk to some Tempers...

... and it helps. :D Even just sharing a story does...
 
VVoltz
[quote name='Orc' post='1104092' date='Apr 23 2008, 12:09 AM']Hadrian strong. Hadrian can hold on long.

Funny thing is, when life does get "farty" I also talk to some Tempers...

... and it helps. :D Even just sharing a story does...[/quote]
Orc speaks the true, it ALWAYS help to seek friends, and you are among them.
Hang on buddy, chin up, you are gonna be fine!
 
Hadrian
Cheers fellow tempers

We had a little chat last night about things and we've seem to sorted things out but we're still having a few days apart and shes gonna visit family while I look after my spawn.

We also ended up talking about whether zombies would turn into vampires if they were bitten or if the vampire would turn into a zombie...

We're odd in that way.
 
Szyslak
Sorry to hear things have gotten tough Hadrian. I really hope it all works out for you.

Don't know if it will help to hear it, but many of us go through the same thing. My daughter is two and my wife is pregnant again. Things can definitely get difficult sometimes, and we've gone through a few periods that I would definitely describe as "farty". Sometimes it's her emotions, sometimes it's mine. Raising a child is difficult, and it puts quite a bit of added strain on a relationship. Just try to hold tight to the reasons that you were together in the first place. Then add in the joy of your little girl, and remind yourself that it is all incredibly worth it. :wub:

It's impossible to truly know what someone else is going through. Try your best to be supportive and patient. Good luck.
 
lagman
Oh Hadry, it really sucks to hear that, but I'm sure it's only a matter of time, people get sick of other people all the time, I get sick of myself kinda often, but that doesn't mean I don't love myself or that you two don't love each other, there's a reason why little Evelyn is so awesome, she was made of love. So put that damn wine bottle away and take the guitar, play some Beatle's tunes and be happy, for your kid, your girlfriend and yourself.
 

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