I've been dating a few girls...

Dating multiple girls at once is still cheating imo

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Nobody tell him

@Paolosworld No, bc i told them only to hang out... it's more like hang out with friends.

@Elalexyzoner in the op you said you were dating the girls but in the above reply you say just hanging out what one is it? as there is a big difference and if you are dating them then it is cheating.

I'll take "Shit that didn't happen" for 800 Alex

@AmandaRose Noo that's not cheating, bc i'm not involved ''romantically'' with them, i'm just hanging out, learning a little bit, here in Mexico we call that ''Salir a tirar cotorreo''
In other words, not something serious.

@Elalexyzoner I occasionally like to watch Girls (.Hang.) (.Out.) Too just for the Experience

@Elalexyzoner I knew it lol you are like Antonio Banderas Zorro Mexico.

''Salir a tirar cotorreo'' He is keeping his options open which ones hang the best referring to Personalities of course

@CORE HAHAH i don't think so, just be a little extroverted and make them laugh, interesting themes of conversation also counts ''Depending in the girl''
But i am nothing more than a Young Fellow looking for some experience...

Depending [in the girl] But isint that the whole point of most males I mean OHH Yeah that yeeeee Yeah that is good too
Lol I get you totally what your saying.

Good that you been dating a few girls at once, now pick one and make her your.

Not really dating then? If you think "hanging out" is close to dating, then I worry about you..

@Hayato213 It's not like i don't like them... they have nothing in common with me, and they doesn't even try to learn...

@Memoir Maybe i explained myself wrong... i have to improve my english a little bit...

*turning 24* "so... i think my time is almost up to get a partner"

Is that how it works? Some women feel that way, some find it to be the case (those "Where have all the good men gone?" articles are frequently hilarious), and you also have the Chinese approach to the world (see "leftover women"), but depending upon the people you speak to then men usually have a few more years, and might even do better for it when they do (you might well have a better job, fancier car, fancier house, means to going to restaurants and holidays and all that which could help matters somewhat). Settling down with people you are generally not that into for no great reason or because your mother wants to have grandchildren to never visit is seldom a recipe for a happy life.

Re: dating more than 1 person is cheating.
There are some interesting takes on exclusivity out there these days, and among the younger people I speak to such things are not necessarily assumed, instead having to be directly stated. Similarly "are we calling this a thing" seems to happen when I as an old man would have assumed it was the case long before; buying silly and large gifts for each other, sleeping together (and just sleeping), mooching around on the sofa of an evening, general grocery shopping.... and having done said same for months is apparently not a thing yet in the eyes of some.
Can't say the former stuff combined with OP's approach is the lifestyle for me -- trying to take on that many assumed identities in quick succession, also social maps for said same, is a fairly impressive skill, like go speak to your local undercover spooks outfit impressive.

The bottom line is if anything intimate is happening with any of the girls then it's cheating its that simple. Why anyone would think any different blows my mind.

What you did is wrong. That's cheating. Shame on you. You crazy and you have a lot learn to do. I feel sorry for those girls. Shame on you! . No, it's cheating.

AmandaRose said:

The bottom line is if anything intimate is happening with any of the girls then it's cheating its that simple. Why anyone would think any different blows my mind.

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It might speak to aspects of sexual hygiene but I am not sure why it would be the delineation between cheating and not. The law makes not expectations of exclusivity, neither does society at large and it seems the prevailing cultural norms among the youth also make for even greater flexibility.

It is certainly a situation where misunderstandings could arise.

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@azoreseuropa Again, none of them has any interest of a serious relationship, neither i, how can i be cheating if is not serious? we are not married, that's cheating for sure, it's the same if you have a girlfriend, if you hang out with another girl with intentions of something more... you're not cheating, you are having no respect for your girlfriend, but not cheating.

So it is not cheating, that's what i think.

hopefully one of the girls isn't a temp member shame on you though

I understand what you're saying, I think. You're not dating any one of them and they are just your friends, but you have noticed certain things about them.

Just for everyone else, open relationships, where two partners agree that they may be intimate with others as well, are actually becoming more common nowadays. They are rather pointless imo and just show how humans have lost all control over their desires, and they're a recipe for STIs too but to each their own.